Hey guys well my story is a strange one as I said.. this chick was jumping all over me for a year we lived and worked together.. as we have the same room mates. She had a boyfriend at the time jumped on me but I was always like woh no.. OK I did kiss her play with her.. 3rd base kind of stuff.. watched movies together didn't everything.. apart form sex. Because she had this boyfriend

Anyway she has gone now.. and she told me that a lot of nice things the night before she left. How she wouldn't forget me and would keep in touch etc etc.. But she is going back with her boyfriend
So I think I should stay away.. anyway it has sent me text and a email. And I'm just not going to reply because at the end of the day.. what's there to talk about right?

Oh hey how are you.. how's the sex with you boyfriend?
I know most people go for a simple hello. Or how's the weather.. but I can't do that hehe

Just wonder what you guys would do?

Regards

I am not an expert beaucse I have my own problems but you need to think if you cared about this girl on an emotional or a physical level! I mean hunny there are thouseands of fish in the sea! But it is commen sense that people attract the most to people they would have an obsticle getting so I mean I no its corny but follow your heart

Ps leave out the whold sex thing if I were you
That will just scare her away

You answered your own question with "I'm just not gonna reply..."

If she really cared about you, you would be her boyfriend instead of her side dish.

Agreed :) thanks guys for your help.. it does want the not out of my life thing.. but I think its just a back up plan as much as I love being a side dish.. id like to be the main dish someday :D

Hehe thank you all

Regards