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hockeyplaya71
Jun 30, 2007, 09:01 PM
OK here its Goes , we met as roomates could there we both good looking people same style etc. wasn't really into her at first we became really really close I have never been this close to a woman ever and I was engaged we do everything together then we hook up after 4months to be friends and living together I have met all her friends family and I have done a lot for her but I think I'm new in town she thinks I'm needy start to hang on her etc. but normaly not like this anyway she is new to dating like 8months so now we haven't slept together in a month and she say I have to move out and we need to work on friendship going to fast... but when I say to hard to just be friends she goes crazy and says I don't know please don't move and just stop talking to me if I want to just try the waters I feel I give everything and she only gives a little but she scared close we both haven't be this close to someone for a long time do I just move on don't return phone calls and let her know I'm not going to be there as she goes on dates cause all her friends say I'm the best thing for her she just doesn't know I kiss her too much...

chuff
Jul 1, 2007, 01:20 AM
She's not into you. Move on.

Angel eyes22
Jul 1, 2007, 03:35 AM
ok here its Goes , we met as roomates could there we both good looking people same style etc. wasnt really into her at first we became really really close i have never been this close to a woman ever and i was engaged we do everything together then we hook up after 4months to be friends and living together i have met all her friends family and i have done alot for her but i think im new in town she thinks im needy start to hang on her etc. but normaly not like this anyway she is new to dating like 8months so now we havnt slept together in a month and she say i have to move out and we need to work on friendship going to fast ....but when i say to hard to just be friends she goes crazy and says i dont know please dont move and jsut stop talking to me if i wanna just try the waters i feel i give everything and she only gives a little but she scared close we both havnt be this close to someone for a long time do i just move on dont return phone calls and let her know im not going to be there as she goes on dates cause all her friends say im the best thing for her she just doesnt know i kiss her to much......
Hey! It sounds to me as though she's scared. Scared of getting hurt or becoming close to some one. She may require some reasurrance. Perhaps give her some space she will soon realsie what she is missing and therefore you will know whether its meant to be or not. Its good if you take things slow I think peronally she is scared. Give her time and don't worry time is everything. I hope it works out :)