anirbaz23
Jun 28, 2007, 05:52 PM
Okay... well, I am new to this so I am going to TRY not to be sooo specific, because I am unaware of just how popular this website is, and I wish to remain anonymous. Lol. Well basically, I was "talking" to this guy a while ago, who was new at my school. This was in August & September of '06. We hit it off right away, and formed an interest for each other rather rapidly. All of the girls liked him and were always all over him. From my eyes, he seemed to be a flirt. However, whenever I would confronted him, he would simply deny it, or play it off, claiming that the girls were the initiators, and he was the innocent bystander. Despite the confusion, we continued to talk, and before I knew it, he began to tell me very personal stuff about his family, and even weakenesses about himself. I was flattered that he felt comfortable sharing such personal information with me, yet at the same time, I began to wonder what his purpose/ intentions were. Every since I began talking to him, my friends would constantly telling me that they had seen him do this and that, say such and such, and that he was flirting with them. Back then, even though I was aware of their jealousy, I believed what they said; but nowI have realized that my so-called friends were never friends at all. In fact, since then, one of my former friends have tried to flirt and/or get with EVERY guy that I have "talked to" or dated. Well eventually me and this guy stopped talking. The things that my friends would tell me kept getting to my head, and eventually I couldn't take it anymore. After I stopped speaking to him, he has tried to talk to me since, but I wouldn't give him a chance. Several months ago, we got into a HUGE verbal argument. We both were constantly "insulting" each other in front of everyone. Since I was the teacher's pet at the time, he was literally and physically thrown out of the classroom, and suspended for two days. He had his classes changed afterwards. After our "fight" we haven't spoke. In fact, not including the argument, we haven't spoke since September or October. After he left, I have formed close relationships with a few of his friends. One of his best friends and I are very close friends now, in fact we talk all of the time. One day his friend decided to bring him up, and discuss the argument." He asked me why did I start the fight. I had explained to him that the whole incident, and the way that I had acted was completely "out of character." However, I explained that his friend was constantly flirting with other girls, including my friends. In response, he claimed that everything that my friends told me were lies. He said that they were close friends, and shared everything; if what my friends said were true, he would have known about it. His friend also assured me, that the guy I was " However, I explained that his friend was constantly flirting with other girls, including my friends. In response, he claimed that everything that my friends told me were lies. He said that they were close friends, and shared everything; if what my friends said were true, he would have known about it. His friend also assured me, that the guy I was " to spoke about me to him often. The guy that I had liked (we'll just call him D.) said that he didn't know why all of a sudden, I would act "cold" to him, and that whatever the problem was, he would try to make it up to me. He also stated that he wanted to have a serious relationship. The friend also told me that the reason why my best friend had made up so many lies about D. was because she had approached him, while I was " to spoke about me to him often. The guy that I had liked (we'll just call him D.) said that he didn't know why all of a sudden, I would act " to him, and he turned her down. So to get back at him, she tried to break us a part. So now, almost a year later... I am sitting here, feeling rather foolish. What if I hadn't listened to my friends... would we still be together? Is his friend telling the truth, or were my friends right all along? I want to contact him and send him a messenge on myspace but I am unsure if that is appropriate. I am only going to explain to him that his friend told me everything and appologize for my part in it all. I believe that he was bitter because he felt that I shared the personal information that he told me with my friends and others... but I DID NOT. After becoming close to his friend, his friend has expressed feelings for me, which complicates everything even more. His friend told me the other day that he told him that I wanted to appologize, but he didn't believe him. How do I know if the friend is even telling the truth? What if D. thinks that I have an romantic interest in his friend? What should I do? Should I contact him and appologize, in hopes of rekindling an old interest? Or should I just forget about him and try my best to move on? Just when I thought that I no longer had feelings for this guy, I am now starting to realize just how much I still really do care! However, I don't want to crush his friend, and most importantly I DO NOT want to make a fool out of myself, again. I need some advice desperately, WHAT SHOULD I DO?!