Pruin
Jun 27, 2007, 10:57 AM
So me and my girl have been together for about 1 year now at about 8 months we had a break up because of a bunch of problems such as I didn't go to school or work and that bothered her, and I stopped spending time with her for a while because I wasn't sure what I wanted, so basically that break up was my fault but whatever we got back together and everything was cool for the most part
about 5 weeks ago we go to NY together to live with her dad for like 1/2 of the summer and after like 2 weeks of being together we start to have a lot of stupid little problems like she says I'm being anti social with her family, she says I have an attitude all the time and she thinks I don't want to be there, I said she was being so dry with me and she acts like she doesn't want to be with me anymore
One day randomly she tells me she needs space so I leave and I go to my aunts house about 45 min away and for like the first days I'm calling her so I can get my stuff and she's avoiding me like crazy we talked like once when I asked her what kind of alone time she wanted and she told me she wasn't doing anything wrong if that's what I meant
the 19th is our anniversary which was like the 6th day of break my phone died since I had no charger and she leaves me messages saying she's thinking about me and she misses me like crazy call her when I wake up I call her in the morning and she tells me t read an email I have so I read it and it says something about being hurt about some dating website email I have and at the end it says love you no matter what so we talk I tell her its spam she seems to believe me she says that email really hurt her we talk some more I tell her I love her she tells me she loves me back and then we hang up ever since that day I haven't spoken a word to her I sent her an email saying I understand she needs space and I want her to be really since I really do
its been like another 6 days since the email and she still hasn't answered my email I miss like crazy and I don't know what to do or think...
before all this she said she was in love with me and she wants to marry me in the future but she knows its not anytime soon since were too young
another thing is she's the kind of girl who can't handle stress and she's been really stressed out lately between problems with me since she says that when were in a bad time it really kills her and she hates NY she was only there for me but she's never told me she needed space before
about 5 weeks ago we go to NY together to live with her dad for like 1/2 of the summer and after like 2 weeks of being together we start to have a lot of stupid little problems like she says I'm being anti social with her family, she says I have an attitude all the time and she thinks I don't want to be there, I said she was being so dry with me and she acts like she doesn't want to be with me anymore
One day randomly she tells me she needs space so I leave and I go to my aunts house about 45 min away and for like the first days I'm calling her so I can get my stuff and she's avoiding me like crazy we talked like once when I asked her what kind of alone time she wanted and she told me she wasn't doing anything wrong if that's what I meant
the 19th is our anniversary which was like the 6th day of break my phone died since I had no charger and she leaves me messages saying she's thinking about me and she misses me like crazy call her when I wake up I call her in the morning and she tells me t read an email I have so I read it and it says something about being hurt about some dating website email I have and at the end it says love you no matter what so we talk I tell her its spam she seems to believe me she says that email really hurt her we talk some more I tell her I love her she tells me she loves me back and then we hang up ever since that day I haven't spoken a word to her I sent her an email saying I understand she needs space and I want her to be really since I really do
its been like another 6 days since the email and she still hasn't answered my email I miss like crazy and I don't know what to do or think...
before all this she said she was in love with me and she wants to marry me in the future but she knows its not anytime soon since were too young
another thing is she's the kind of girl who can't handle stress and she's been really stressed out lately between problems with me since she says that when were in a bad time it really kills her and she hates NY she was only there for me but she's never told me she needed space before