I live in Canada and recently married a man from the UK. I spent a month there and married but had to return to work. We are waiting for his temporary resident visa to come through. Before I went to the UK he always made time for me whether it be by email, text, msn or on the phone. I have been back home for three weeks now and he has not called me once. He hardly ever makes the time to talk on msn and sends no emails. It is more important that he has time to go to the pub every night instead of make time for me. He has said he is working long hours and is tired. I confronted him about this and he didn't take it well at all and accused me of ing at him like everyone else in his life does. I only wanted him to know how I was feeling (communication). He went offline rather quickly and I'm just not sure how to take this. I guess my question is how can this man think that you can keep a relationship alive with a few text messages a day? And why was he so offended when I told him I was feeling like he wasn't trying like he used to before we were married. What should I do next??

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Hello.

Sounds like he got what he wanted and now he doesn't have to be the nice guy. Im not sure what it is he wanted, I'm sure he wouldn't get married for sex so it must be the visa to Canada or could it be your bank account.

You need to do some real checking on why he married you if he isn't in Love with you. Im not talking about just asking him. Check his background, check his credit, there is something wrong and its time to find out before he gets his visa.

Good Luck
Dennis777

There is something going on here. Can't quite figure it out. Need Caution tape!

First of all, how long have you known each other and how much time did you spend together?

Next, some people think once they "have" you they can just let themselves go and do whatever they want to whenever they want to, because you're now their spouse and you have to put up with it.

Last but not least: If you haven't been together for very long, you might want to have second and third thoughts if you really want to be married to this guy. If he is like that so soon into the relationship, things are not going to get better once he moves in with you.

Just my 2 cents!