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hot-shopper-500
Jun 13, 2007, 12:05 PM
OK well I'm going out with someone but I really don't like him that much I like him as a frienf and I play along when he says I love you but I just don't know who to put it to him I mean he has other girls that like him and he said if we break up he is going to go out with one of them but the reason I'm holding on to him is because I have not had the courage enough to ask one of his friends out and he knows I like his friend but I don't talk about the boy I like to my boyfriend I don't want to break his heart again cause I have broken it before

JoeCanada76
Jun 13, 2007, 12:09 PM
This is childish, you do not hold on to somebody just for the hell of it so you can guarantee you will be with somebody else if it is over.

Stop playing games, it will be more hurtful if you keep playing these games and lying like you are.

The longer you do this the harder it will be.

Time to let this person go now. Friends is what you want to be and explain that to this person.

It is very simple, this is what you have to do.

Joe

templelane
Jun 13, 2007, 12:18 PM
The longer you leave this situation the more it will hurt your boyfriend when you do break up with him. Leave him now.

cutos
Jun 19, 2007, 10:33 AM
Let the boy go you need to go to yea sure it might hurt him for a little bit but he WILL get ova it and get a new GF!! --like jesushelper76 says(and I quote)-"This is childish"

Lotz_of_Questions
Jun 19, 2007, 11:31 AM
You shouldn't be playing games. If you don't like this person tell him know. You shouldn't be telling him things you don't feel. What goes around comes around and sooner or later, if you keep playing games, someone will play games with you. Be honest with this person and break up. Don't make him believe u really love him any longer!