I think my boyfriend may be gay
I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now. We spend really great time went we are together. At the bigining we tried to base our relatinship in trust,love and respect.he is funny, sweet and smart. I LOVE HIM and I'm sure that he loves me too. But, our sex life is not good at all. I am always the one that takes the first step. He hugs,kiss and touch me everywhere... yea, he turn me on. But then he just said that he is tired, that just because we don't have sex it doesn't mean that he dosen't love me.(I'm confused) to me sex is something strong that hold a relationship together.
Our relationship is been affected. Most of the time we ended up in a discussiom.(I feel insecure) last week. I ask him in a very nice way what does he think about gays and his answered was that he aprove 100% the way gay people live their life and that it's not their fault to be like that. It is totally normal to him. I asked him if he had ever kiss a guy he said no.I asked if he have ever have sex with a guy his answer was no.I asked if he feel atraction for guys but he said no. so, I asked why is the he doesn't like sex with a girl? His answer was that he doesn't care about sex (he is only 25?? )i'm 25 as well. And I know that if the answer is yes I am the last person he would tell it. But I just had to ask.
He may be even be afraid that I will hate or reject him afterward. That it is not the truth. I'm a opend mind person.
He comes form a good (traditional) family. My guess is the he is afraid to face that he is gay.
May be he is terrified of his onw feelings. He often repit tha he is just a normal man.
He is planing on moving with me like in two month. He is olso talking about marriage. He is sure that he wants a wife, kids and a house.to me sex is hugely important in marriage. I don't know if I should break with him before everything gets worse.( it's pretty scary tought.) I LOVE HIM. All I want is to stay true in our relationship.
Somehow I feel like if he is just jusing me as a cover.
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