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  • Nov 14, 2012, 07:47 AM
    nisha24
    Prblm with my stomach
    Iam 27 unmarried.whenever I have pain in stomach I get afraid of
  • Nov 14, 2012, 07:48 AM
    J_9
    Afraid of what?
  • Nov 14, 2012, 07:49 AM
    nisha24
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    Afraid of what?

    Whether any pregnancy prblm
  • Nov 14, 2012, 07:53 AM
    J_9
    Whether? Prblm? Can you please type in complete words and sentences as the site requires it? Thank you.
  • Nov 14, 2012, 07:54 AM
    nisha24
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    whther? prblm? Can you please type in complete words and sentences as the site requires it? Thank you.

    Whether am I pregnant
  • Nov 14, 2012, 07:55 AM
    nisha24
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by nisha24 View Post
    Whether am i pregnant

    How can I come to know this
  • Nov 14, 2012, 07:57 AM
    J_9
    Quote:

    How can I come to know this
    You take a pregnancy test or visit a doctor.
  • Nov 14, 2012, 07:58 AM
    nisha24
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    You take a pregnancy test or visit a doctor.

    Can I know what help we get from this site
  • Nov 14, 2012, 07:59 AM
    J_9
    No one can diagnose pregnancy or anything else via the internet. When it comes to your health you need to see a doctor in person.
  • Nov 14, 2012, 08:01 AM
    nisha24
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    No one can diagnose pregnancy or anything else via the internet. When it comes to your health you need to see a doctor in person.

    Iam afraid of going to doctor and so I asked you.one thing is I never had sex with my boyfriend.he just kissed me and touched me.I want to clear my doubt that's all
  • Nov 14, 2012, 08:05 AM
    J_9
    Okay, to get pregnant he needs to put his penis in your vagina. That is called sex, or intercourse. If he hasn't put his penis in your vagina there is no way you could be pregnant.

    At 27 you shouldn't be afraid to go to the doctor. You should actually be going to the doctor every year for check-ups.

    Sex = pregnancy. If you haven't had sex, you can't be pregnant. You can't get pregnant from kissing.
  • Nov 14, 2012, 08:08 AM
    nisha24
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    Okay, to get pregnant he needs to put his penis in your vagina. That is called sex, or intercourse. If he hasn't put his penis in your vagina there is no way you could be pregnant.

    At 27 you shouldn't be afraid to go to the doctor. You should actually be going to the doctor every year for check-ups.

    Sex = pregnancy. If you haven't had sex, you can't be
    pregnant. You can't get pregnant from kissing.

    Thanks a lot doctor. He has fingered into my vagina once and he suck also sometimes my chest. That's all.
  • Nov 14, 2012, 08:09 AM
    nisha24
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by nisha24 View Post
    Thanx a lot doctor. He has fingered into my vagina once and he suck also sometimes my chest. Thats all.

    I need not worry about this doctor according to you
  • Nov 14, 2012, 08:09 AM
    J_9
    Then it's impossible for you to be pregnant.
  • Nov 14, 2012, 08:11 AM
    nisha24
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    Then it's impossible for you to be pregnant.

    Should I allow him whatever he is doing with me know.if I will face problem in future please advise me doctor
  • Nov 14, 2012, 08:13 AM
    J_9
    First of all, I am not a doctor, but a nurse.

    Second of all, what kind of problem are you concerned about?

    I understand that English is not your mother tongue. But at 27 years old you should know how pregnancy happens.
  • Nov 14, 2012, 08:16 AM
    nisha24
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    First of all, I am not a doctor, but a nurse.

    Second of all, what kind of problem are you concerned about?

    I understand that English is not your mother tongue. But at 27 years old you should know how pregnancy happens.

    Frankly speaking I have no knowledge regarding this.and why it happens whenever he touches me white liquid passes from vagina.I get tensed
  • Nov 14, 2012, 08:19 AM
    J_9
    Are you ready to be a mother?
  • Nov 14, 2012, 08:21 AM
    nisha24
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    Are you ready to be a mother?

    I didn't understand. I am unmarried.just know you cleared my doubt that sex=pregnancy
  • Nov 14, 2012, 08:23 AM
    J_9
    If you are not ready to be a mother, stop with the touching, kissing, etc.

    One thing leads to another and soon enough he will be putting his penis in your vagina.
  • Nov 14, 2012, 08:24 AM
    nisha24
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    If you are not ready to be a mother, stop with the touching, kissing, etc.

    One thing leads to another and soon enough he will be putting his penis in your vagina.

    No madam.it is impossible.I will never allow him to do that it is damn sure
  • Nov 14, 2012, 08:26 AM
    nisha24
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by nisha24 View Post
    No madam.it is impossible.i will never allow him to do that it is damn sure

    He said and promised me that he will never force me to do
  • Nov 14, 2012, 08:28 AM
    J_9
    Then stop with the risky behavior. Don't let him touch you, don't get naked with him.
  • Nov 14, 2012, 08:31 AM
    nisha24
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    Then stop with the risky behavior. Don't let him touch you, don't get naked with him.

    Ok madam thanks for clearing all my doubts and only touching and kissing and fingering I will allow him.sucking he does.but madam we meet once in month.so I should allow at least to do this
  • Nov 14, 2012, 08:34 AM
    nisha24
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by nisha24 View Post
    Ok madam thanks for clearing all my doubts and only touching and kissing and fingering i will allow him.sucking he does.but madam we meet once in month.so i should allow atleast to do this

    One thing please clear me madam flowing of white is this common thing for girls.daily 4 -5 drops
  • Nov 14, 2012, 08:37 AM
    J_9
    Yes, it's normal. It's called discharge.
  • Nov 14, 2012, 08:39 AM
    nisha24
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    Yes, it's normal. It's called discharge.

    Thank you madam.but when he sucks it starts flowing more.can I know the reason
  • Nov 14, 2012, 08:51 AM
    Cat1864
    Nisha, the discharge is your body's natural lubrication. The lubrication increases when you are aroused to prepare your body for intercourse. It makes penetration feel better for both you and your partner.
  • Nov 14, 2012, 08:54 AM
    nisha24
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Cat1864 View Post
    nisha, the discharge is your body's natural lubrication. The lubrication increases when you are aroused to prepare your body for intercourse. It makes penetration feel better for both you and your partner.

    Thank you madam.you are so nice and a good nurse.bye.
  • Nov 14, 2012, 09:03 AM
    Cat1864
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by nisha24 View Post
    Thankyou madam.you are so nice and a good nurse.bye.

    Nisha, I am not a nurse. I am a volunteer trying to give what help I can.

    May I suggest looking up sites written in your native language that explain how the female body works?
  • Nov 14, 2012, 05:45 PM
    Alty
    Is sex education not allowed where you live? I find it very wrong that a 27 year old woman has no idea how her body works, or how pregnancy occurs. You have the internet, I would suggest doing some research so that you know what happens with your body when you're aroused, how sex works, and how pregnancy works. You shouldn't guess about this, and not all sites are as good as the one you were lucky enough to find, which is us.
  • Nov 14, 2012, 07:13 PM
    nisha24
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    Is sex education not allowed where you live? I find it very wrong that a 27 year old woman has no idea how her body works, or how pregnancy occurs. You have the internet, I would suggest doing some research so that you know what happens with your body when you're aroused, how sex works, and how pregnancy works. You shouldn't guess about this, and not all sites are as good as the one you were lucky enough to find, which is us.

    Sorry madam we might have sex education.but I was not intrested in all this.madam last year at age of 25 I came to know that how woman delivers baby.can you suggest a site or if you will explain me in simple language I will understand madam
  • Nov 15, 2012, 04:09 AM
    GuardianofTime
    Do not be afraid... Life is drained once you become afraid of things to come.

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