A lot of it depends on how open you are to experiment. You guys could get on Yahoo chats and cybersex with someone to get things started, there are numerous games to be played, don't always think sex has to be in the bedroom try other rooms. Rent some adult movies, Toys, Toys, Toys.

My husband and I have a very exciting sex life and are always looking for new things... needless to say we've done a lot of things people would consider "strange" lol... have you ever tried bondage? It doesn't have to be rough but it's a thrillin experience to know that your in full control, or toys? That's always fun I myslef have numerous vibrators and dildos... from what I hear guys enjoy watching a woman please herself. What about watching a sexy movie together or just having sex in new and exciting places the high you get from knowing you can get caught and knowing your doing something your not suppose to is one that is completely unimaginable in a great way... if that's too much for you just try dirty talking during sex asking ? Like what type of things turn him on... what turns you on? What he would like being imaginative or real

Try viewing different kinds of porn... its a fairly discrete way to find new things that turn either or both of you on. Go into the video store with him and look at the covers... rent a couple you both give a nod to.


However that's more for a Married couple that already have made the lifetime commitment to each other.

If you are still casually dating its really a different ballgame as it takes years of routine sex to become boring... not months.

If he's bored already that might be a warning flag to heed.

Well trying 69 position, the butterfly and any other kama sutra positions really spices things up... especially having sex in different areas of the house. I mean when he comes home, just surprise him by giving him a nice sentual old fashioned blow job. If you are not ready to swallow, have a towel near by. Don't tell him anything but, honey I want you to close your eyes and just relax, I've got something I want to give you from the bottom of my loving heart. Might sound a little like a cliché, but it damn well works, reasure him it is what you WANT! To give him something for him and you to both enjoy. You see, spontaneous sex is definitely the best, unplanned and charismatic in pure lust.:p

There is a book that my husband and I bought one time, it was great. I wish I could remember the name. I bought it at Waldenbooks, but anyway it had pages for him and pages for you. The pages were silled and only had a price sign on the cover to let you know what the project would cost. When you openned the pages it gave you something to do with your partner (something sexual) once you got everything you need for the plot, there's an invitation to invite your partner. They have no idea what to expect, it's so fun.

One of the things that I had to do, drove him WILD! I blindfolded him and tied his hands together where they were out of my way. Then I went and got a hot cup of water and an iced down cup of water. Start with the hot, let it sit in your mouth for a bit, then go down on him. After a couple of strokes, change to the cold. It will drive him CRAZY in a good way.

Good Luck

Try wearing something sexy. A very short skirt with thigh-high stockings and a white blouse with nothing on undernieth. Perhaps give your b/f a blowjob in an unexpected place, the car - or a theater. We all like having our balls played with and licked / sucked. Masturbate together have an orgasm in front of him, talk dirty!:p

Give him a book of fantasies and suck him off while he reads. See what turns him on and then do it! Strip, dance and play. We most all like an angel on the street and a whore in bed, reverse the roles a bit and be naughty in public, away from home.

Have fun.

Married 27 years and still horny for each other.