Originally Posted by
Whistila2010
To smoothy: So, boys never have blue balls? I've never asked him not to masturbate. It's his body and he can do what he wants with it. He says that he doesn't but I concede that I have no proof of that. I do know that I can get pregnant without having vaginal intercourse. We try to be as careful as we can. I don't believe that he is just trying to "get in my pants." We've been dating for a year and a 7 months now and we've never had sex before. Although he doesn't like waiting, he does without bothering me about it or trying to pressure me into changing my mind. If he were waiting for me to give in, I think he would have given up by now. He does say that he is a virgin, which I believe. Even if he isn't, we will use a condom when we have sex. I haven't had problems before so I have no reason to believe that he has a disease nor has he had much time to get one before we've were together.