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    rhubarbarbuhr Posts: 13, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 8, 2010, 08:30 AM
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    I wish it were that easy with us, but he takes it harder and harder every time I don't orgasm.
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    #22

    Oct 8, 2010, 08:37 AM

    Perhaps this side of him that is coming out now is a side that your not willing to pursue the relationship further?

    To be honest I don't think its you,I think it's the guys your choosing to be with,or at least the last two.

    Some men equate their sexually performance with their ego,if the women is not getting off,for him,its her fault NOT something he is not doing,god forbid!

    But there are men who want to learn about the women their with,not just in the bedroom but outside it as well.

    Its down to you to teach the guy how to pleasure you as everyone is different,including the mans needs.
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    #23

    Oct 8, 2010, 08:38 AM

    Half the problem seems to be that he is focusing too much on the destination here and not enough on the journey. It seems that he wants the "I made Rhubarbarbuhr orgasm" merit badge so badly that he is forgoing the intimate pleasure of a sexual encounter.

    He needs to slow down and focus less on your orgasm.

    Your boyfriends seems like a bit of a **** too. You really need to talk to him and figure out whether this is the best thing for both of you. Taking some time to decompress and figure out your body might be a good thing.
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    #24

    Oct 8, 2010, 08:39 AM

    A man who truly loves a woman will not blame her for being non-orgasmic, but rather will be patient and take the time to learn her body and what buttons to push.

    Seems the guy you have here isn't quite the man he thinks he is.
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    Oct 8, 2010, 06:29 PM

    This man sounds like he has serious insecurity, control and anger issues. My advise? Run like he11!

    Once alone and free of his crud you can begin to explore your own fantasies and bodily reactions to various stimulants.

    If you had, or faked orgasms with him then he wouldn't get all mad?
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    Oct 11, 2010, 05:29 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by simoneaugie View Post
    This man sounds like he has serious insecurity, control and anger issues. My advise? Run like he11!

    Once alone and free of his crud you can begin to explore your own fantasies and bodily reactions to various stimulants.

    If you had, or faked orgasms with him then he wouldn't get all mad?
    I am thinking the very same thing... and since I am a guy... his actions seem very strange.
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    Oct 11, 2010, 10:02 PM

    Step one... KICK that guy to the curb!! How selfish can one person be? Step two... your bigger problem is to find out why you would allow someone to treat you this way. Step three... I can't even come up with step three because I am still in shock that what is supposed to be making LOVE is so cold and heartless.
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