I don't understand why I never get wet like sometimes maybe once a month but I want to get wet all the time when I'm horny and during sex. My husband is awesome in bed and turns me on all day but I never get wet . Is there a pill I could take or what please help

Do you think you're exercising enough foreplay with each other? The bigger the build up, the more aroused you're likely to be. Don't feel pressured to either. Talk to your husband.

X Dani

Agree, how long do you do foreplay? What happens when you masterbate ?

Need to know that before we really go further in guesses

Stop worrying. From the sounds of it, you are very content with him other than not being wet. Rather than a pill, there are several wonderful LUBEs available. Many of them are inexpensive and then you are not introducing chemicals into your system. (Yes, I know lubes are "chemicals" but not as invasive into your system as pills.) Make the use of them as part of your fore-play. As he gently strokes your nipples, your ****, your vaginal folds - he can drizzle it on you (like pancakes) or he can warm it in his hands then touch you. Whatever you both like best. You didn't mention your age, but many women as they age, do lose some of their ability to produce natural moisture. There is nothing wrong with you.

The other folks who have answered also offered you great suggestions, take your time. Make sure you have enough time for you to allow your body to become aroused. I have learned that we are different, each woman. And even ourself!

Relax... He's obviously content with the relationship. Try using warming gel... works great & you'll love it!

More background would definitely help.

Have you talked to your doctor to rule out any medical problems?

How old are you and have you had any medical issues that might be affecting your hormones? Women who are in perimenopause or menopause can experience dryness.

Some medications can also cause dryness.

What is different on the occasions when you do get wet?

There are lubricants on the market (if you use condoms, make certain any lubricant you use is safe for them otherwise the condom might fail), however, you do need to know if there is a medical reason for what you are experiencing.

I can't get we're either. When I'm having sex with my girlfriend, I know she feels like she's doing something wrong, but she's not. I still get horny. Just not wet. I feel like a failure in bed at times.