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desi1030 · May 6, 2013, 03:53 PM

When I get excited or I am side tract my textin will look like I'm trying to speak 16 different laungages . As for him workibg so much its his season. He is a forman and this time a year I'm he is always at work so like I said from the beginning his disrespect and diatance just started a couple months ago. On a normal week he works probably 55+hours a week

Originally Posted by talaniman

Her writing style has not changed. Not one bit.

Cat1864 · May 6, 2013, 04:23 PM

Originally Posted by desi1030

When i get excited or i am side tract my textin will look like im trying to speak 16 different laungages . As for him workibg so much its his season. He is a forman and this time a year im he is always at work so like i said from the begining his disrespect and diatance just started a couple months ago. On a normal week he works probablly 55+hours a week

Originally Posted by desi1030

this is our second attempt at this we have been together exactly 6 months today .. Thank u for the advice anf yes i have calmly talked about my feeling multiple times with him and its always the same thing he says "not doing this right now " ot he will find some reason to be mad at mefor something but no more than 10 minutes after i posted this he woke up and kissed me in a way he hasnt in a long time anf he got intimate ! And firat thing this morning he actually talked to me avout all this .. It was on his way to work but he still talked for a few . And as i was getting outta the car he actually said we will finiah this tonight when he gets off !! i couldnt of asked for anything more thats all i wanted was fpr him to listen and respond not react .. Wow .. Hope i. Not getting

I think there are issues, but I think he may be willing to work with you.

What changed two months ago?

To be honest, he may be what you think of as disrespectful, but I think there may be a bit of very high expectations on your part. If you are expecting him to be lovey-dovey and talkative after a grueling day at work and he isn't feeling up to talking, then there is a conflict. He may just need some time to relax after he gets home.

desi1030 · May 6, 2013, 07:03 PM

I underatand that I work as well . But its not okay to treat soneone who also just worked a full day and came home and cooked a full dinner like a POS . No appreciation at all and that sucka.. And yes I may havr (in tour words) high expectations . But really is a hello and tha k you too much to ask. I don't thi k so

Originally Posted by Cat1864

I think there are issues, but I think he may be willing to work with you.

What changed two months ago?

To be honest, he may be what you think of as disrespectful, but I think there may be a bit of very high expectations on your part. If you are expecting him to be lovey-dovey and talkative after a grueling day at work and he isn't feeling up to talking, then there is a conflict. He may just need some time to relax after he gets home.

JudyKayTee · May 7, 2013, 06:20 AM

I find going from neat punctuation to no punctuation at all to be a change in writing style - but perhaps that's the English major in me and the OP has explained it.

desi1030 · May 7, 2013, 06:52 AM

No I don't like lovey dovey . I do like occasional conversation . Um maybe a thank you for dinner it was good.. . But there's NOTHING I just want to feel appreciated.. Ya know I don't even know why I'm still trying to prove something to someone who already has their mind made up. Shoulf I start posting his voicemails or maybr pictures ? Would that convince you

Another thing once again we DO NOT live together so he does go home and relaxes and showers puts on nice clean clothes the when he is ready he comes over. What part of that wad hard to understand the first time I said it ?

JudyKayTee · May 7, 2013, 07:07 AM

"Another thing once again we DO NOT live together so he does go home and relaxes and showers puts on nice clean clothes the when he is ready he comes over. What part of that wad hard to understand the first time i said it ?"

Who are you addressing and why the attitude? You come on AMHD asking for advice. You got advice. If you want to know what outsiders think, ask here. If not, talk to your friends.

I don't understand your attitude toward people who have put time and effort into answering you.

The fact that he's a loser doesn't make it "our" fault. "We" aren't in a relationship with him.

desi1030 · May 7, 2013, 07:41 AM

No attitude intended

talaniman · May 7, 2013, 07:47 AM

We get you are not happy and want changes from him, but if you get none then you have few options but to leave him alone. You have only been together 6 months and its time to talk and listen and see if you both can make adjustments and resolve your issues through communications.

If you cannot, I fail to see the point of continuing this relationship because I doubt either of you is happy as thing are.

No communications = No relationship. I think all couples go through the same periods of making a decision to stay or go. You are not alone in that as the initial honeymoon period is over and you start learning the faults you both have that annoy each other. How you deal with each other now and develop the kind of communications that allows you to address each other concerns is the key.

Keep talking, or start walking.

* While The initial question was edited the rest of your posts here were not, and hard to read.

desi1030 · May 7, 2013, 08:00 AM

Well I started walking.. I just can't do this anymore I want tk be happy and not worry about upaerting him or making him mad if I were to go do my on thing . So this morning I tomd him that his behavior and showing off fkr his friends by talking rudely to me was the last straw . So thank u . I appreciate all the advice