We have been together 3 years and have sex evryday. It is great. I love it!
BUT the last 2 nights in a row, he has went soft in the middle! I freaked!
He says it is because he is stressed, cause he DOES have a lot on his plate right now.. he also says it's because he was playing his videogame all day and can't focus properly and smoked too much weed, is this true?
WHY DO GUYS GO SOFT!?

Stress really does have a lot to do with it. Anything new happen the day before the two nights in a row happen that could be affecting his thoughts?

XenoSapien

I thought your boyfriend was in jail for 2 years?

If not, it could be all the pressure you're putting him under from your jealousy, maybe he's worried about something you've said to him in a jealous moment.

I agree, stress, being overly tired or just bad luck. It happens to all of us at one time or other. Some more than others.

I don't understand this...
Here you claim he is in jail and has been for two years.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...le-109172.html

And here
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...set-76914.html

And yet you still are able to have sex with him every night?. you ask about parole in this thread:
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/crimin...da-109480.html

So he can't be out on that...

Im just curious because all of the threads you are posting don't make sense, and I don't like people coming in here and making up things. It takes away from other people who really do need help. You seem to have a lot of problems judging by some of your posts, and some just aren't that believable...

Well Is He Or Isn't He In Jail? I Think Your On Here Posting Just To Be Posting To See How Many Responses You Could Get Back From Your One Question... Just Yesterdeay You Said "hey My Boyfriend Is In Jail For Two Years Also" So Is Your Boyfriend Really In Jail?? Are You Cheating On Him?? Make Up Your Mind!!

Here you go, is she or is she not an internet troll?

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I'd say she is a troll. She has a lot of odd posts on here.

XenoSapien

For the OP:
Pot does odd things to your sex drive and abilities. If he smoked a lot of pot he can go soft in the middle tell him not to bake his brain so much and he will be fine.

For everyone else:
Maybe she has many boyfriends and this is the one that plays video games and smokes pot all day not the one in jail. Either way she sounds like she dates some real winners and I look forward to supporting her welfare babies in the future.

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Originally Posted by wild_girl

We have been tiogether 3 years and have sex evryday. it is great. I love it!!
BUT the last 2 nights in a row, he has went soft in the middle!! I freaked!!
He says it is because he is stressed, cause he DOES have alot on his plate right now..he also says it's because he was playing his videogame all day and can't focus properly and smoked too much weed, is this true?
WHY DO GUYS GO SOFT!!?!??!

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Obviously... well I think he... you said you've been together for three years. Maybe he's getting bored.

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obviously ... well i think he....... you said youve been together for three years. maybe hes getting bored.

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Guys Im not a troll! He is in jail, I just said "we were having sex yesterday".. cause I didn't want to say, "We were having sex 4 months ago....." because then everyone would start asking me why I am bringing it up now etc.. Than theyd ask me if I still am having the sameproblem with him now,and Id have to explain he's in jail, then it would get into along explination and getoff topic... so I just said yesterday

Haha yea exactly

Canadian jails must be great; sex visits everyday, video games and pot. In America you only get cable TV and interenet access.

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Canadian jails must be great; sex visits everyday, video games and pot. In America you only get cable tv and interenet access.

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Actually you don't get sex visits... dont get to smoke weed... my boyfriend is locked in a box 24 hours a day with nothing but a toilet an a metal bed...

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Actually you dont get sex visits...dont get to smoke weed...my boyfriend is locked in a box 24 hours a day with nothing but a toilet an a metal bed...

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We have been tiogether 3 years and have sex evryday. it is great. I love it!!

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If that's the case how do you have sex every day?

We DID everyday

Really?

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BUT the last 2 nights in a row, he has went soft in the middle!!

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I think I understand now. He is currently locked up and the event that caused the question happened in the past but you presented it in present tense so you won't have to explain things.

My first response still stands, pot will do that to you and I'm not saying that because he used an illegal drug that must be his problem. I'm saying it because I know people that smoke pot and the girlfriends of those people who complain that the boyfriend has problems with sex.

Perhaps there is more than ONE boyfriend??

Seriously though wild_girl, your boyfriend sounds like a waste of time... idk why you spend so much of it talking about him on here, if I were you id be out of that relationship asap.