How do I deal with a 40 year old alcoholic son?
My son has been drinking since he was 16. His father died from alcohol. I have tried staying close to him as I want him to know that his family loves him. He has said many hurtful things and continues to drink. Right now he is not suppose to drink around his child when he sees her (he is divorced), but he takes that chance.. How do I draw the line. I cannot stand talking to him when he drinks. Even when he isn't drinking, he has been an alcoholic for years and it seems as though the effects of this disease have completely altered who he is. I don't know what to do anymore.
Comment on Carol3333's post
I sympathize Carol, I have gone though this for years with my 40 year old son. Right now I am sitting here listing to him act like a raging maniac and didn't even know what he had done for the past two hours. He has gone to rehab 3 or 4 times in the past, even was sober for several years. Had a good job, was injured on the job, several months later lost his job (not due to alcohol) started drinking real bad again. I am at my wits end. If you find a solution, please let me know.
Comment on RustyFairmount's post
Good Luck, you really have to want to do it yourself, not just doing it for someone else. It's a start. Thanks.