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Helpme1234512345 · Feb 7, 2008, 01:23 AM

I've been dating my boyfriend for about 6 months now and lately he seems less interestedin me. He works 3 jobs and goes toschool full time. He lives about 10 minutes from me so he's pretty close. In the beginning, we wanted to spend every second we had free together but now he seems to spend like 2 times aweek together. His main job gets him up pretty early in the morning, and he is usually always tired and would rather just rest at his own house. He texts me throughout the day still but it just feels like he's distant all of a sudden. What do I do?

MasuBhat · Feb 7, 2008, 01:25 AM

Talk it out?

Frm my view I think it's just you worring.. at least he's still texting you!. but if you worry that much than talk with him.

imation · Feb 7, 2008, 03:43 AM

Communicating with him will help. Texting you is a good sign, he's probably really stressed, 3 jobs and fulltime study can take it out of you

shygrneyzs · Feb 7, 2008, 03:54 AM

He has three jobs and college full time and so he must also study, write assignments, research, and eat and sleep. I wonder how he finds any time for his social life. You wonder that too now.

I would cut him some slack and not get so worried over this. Just think how much free time you would have in his position. He cares about you or else he would not be texting. I know that does not seem like enough but try not to push him or read too much into this right now. His plate is full, as the saying goes, full to running over.

Brandino747 · Feb 7, 2008, 07:08 AM

Hmmm... tough boat.

Sometime pulling away will make them come running back, as cruel as it sounds, jealousy and a little doubt in the relationship can strengthen it's base a lot! It's proven too.

If the communication doesn't work I would wait for him to contact you first. If he wants to do something just say you have plans and you'll do it another time; putting him on ice (for only a moment, don't be nuts) will get him thinking. Trust me, it works.

talaniman · Feb 7, 2008, 07:50 AM

Taking his working all the time, personally, isn't to healthy, on your part. I really hope you try and understand this hard working man, and do things that make you happy without him. Not easy, but you can't just sit and wonder why he works so hard, without asking, and seeing if you accept that answer. In the meantime, make sure your happy with yourself. I suspect he has some lofty plans in his future, so ask him.