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    Randall1134 Posts: 10, Reputation: 1
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    May 19, 2007, 06:05 PM
    Separated want to get back together
    Want to get back with my separated wife . She does not want anything to do with me. I would like some ideas how to reconnect with wife and kids . Want to win her heart again she says she does not love me .
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    May 19, 2007, 06:11 PM
    That will take a lot of hard work and stuff... are you sure that her heart can be won back? Did she love you before? Don't try and pressure her into anything, but you should have a connection with the kids, you are the father! Do you have visitation rights? Do you love her?
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    May 19, 2007, 07:28 PM
    How long has it been?
    Why?

    Your relationship with your wife should not change your relationship with your kids.
    She may not want to have anything to do with you, but your kids need a relationship with you.


    1] don't criticize / be critical / judge things - not saying that you are or have, just don't.

    2] Be patient, be kind, be humble.

    3] Don't bring things up from the past.

    4] listen to her.

    These things are much much easier said than done.

    Grace and peace
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    May 19, 2007, 08:57 PM
    Leave the wife alone and put all your love and focus on the kids. Be nice but leave her alone and only discuss the well being of the children with her.
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