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t1kipunch · Sep 3, 2012, 08:36 AM

Sorry kiddo, but you weren't molested and you're making way more out of this than it is. So your brother is crude and touched your boob once... bfd. Stop looking for attention and trying to play the victim.

LadySam · Sep 3, 2012, 09:45 AM

Hi punch, are you a 14 year old girl yourself?
She is a victim of her brothers actions, they caused her anxiety, and made her uncomfortable and it has had an impact on her family dynamics.
If this is happening to you I would suggest you getting some help or telling someone, if it is the other way around, then I still suggest you get some help for your problem.
I don't know many text abbreviavtions but I do know bfd, and that's a pretty crappy attitude for such a sensitive subject.

t1kipunch · Sep 5, 2012, 07:47 AM

No, but I am a 20 year old "girl" (woman, really) who is deeply, deeply disturbed by the reactionary, hytsterical treatment anything even remotely sexual between young adults is treated. Her anxiety is far more likely to be caused by her guilt for not having stopped him and perhaps maybe even wanting it to go further (judging by her continued engagement in 'sexual' conversation with him) but certainly not directly from any of HIS actions. I mean lets take a look at what really happened here... nothing, that's what happened.

I hate it when people victimize themselves because they feel guilty or when people pacify others and feed their blame-laying by telling them how horrible what 'happened' to them supposedly was and how traumtized they should be by it.