Originally Posted by
Jaysac
I really like this girl who's my workmate. She has a boyfriend for 4 months now but i know her before her boyfriend does. I only know her by her name by just only last year. But now that she's new at work and i see her again we actually get to know each other better and got alot closer,, Mutual maybe.. We've been working together for 6 months now. We talk on the phone everyday for more than an hour. She even talks to me longer than she talks to her boyfriend and now she tells me how she wants to give up her relationship with her boyfriend but her soft spot(thats what she told me) stops her from breaking from their relationship.
She doesn't want to break up. You're her emotional doormat where she gets to dump the problems of her relationship. Her boyfriend says this, does that, doesn't listen to her or waste his time talking to her so she's got you to dump all her emotional issues on.
Originally Posted by
Jaysac
He begs her not to go and says he'll change for her but he still couldnt... they've been goin on like this for more than 6 times.
There you have it. She doesn't want to leave him.
Originally Posted by
Jaysac
Well, all i could do is advice but my advice might make her think that i want her to break up with him and have me instead.
But you do?
Originally Posted by
Jaysac
I do tell her that i get jealous at times and she answers back with kissing me.
So she can't be trusted, and neither of you respect the boundaries of a relationship.
Originally Posted by
Jaysac
I really like her, i really do. We usually go out on a date and usually kissed while her bf's at work. I know its cheating but i couldnt help it and she likes it. We never went to bed though. We've been doing this for 2 months now. She even wants to take me and my Mom out to introduce her to my Mom and get to know each other. Plus, she told me that i could tell my Mom that she's my Girlfriend.
But she has a boyfriend... so that would be lying.
What she really wants to do is see how far she can take this game she's playing. She's already got you hooked as her emotional doormat with a few kisses. She doesn't even have to sleep with you and your whipped. From her perspective... not bad. From yours... YOUR GETTING SCREWED OVER... WITHOUT EVEN GETTING SCREWED. Now she wants you to lie to your mother and tell her that your going out so she can weasel her way to your mom and get something from her. Maybe gifts, money, or just the thrill of knowing she can pull this off.
Originally Posted by
Jaysac
She and Her Bf are living together and i get so jealous everytime i think bout that. Living under the same roof which can make them do 'anything'. But they usually argue and whenever she blows up she tries to leave him, he begs and she stays.
PA-LEASE! He isn't begging her to do anything. He's in complete control, which is why she's got you to toy around with.
Originally Posted by
Jaysac
Soft spot, eh?
More like emotional game playing skank.
Originally Posted by
Jaysac
Last November, they just dated for a day and he asked her to be his girlfriend which she agreed and after a month they lived together til now!
I'd love to hear his version of that little story.
Originally Posted by
Jaysac
We went out last week we talked about us. We told each other that we really liked each other. I think i love her but i couldnt say it to her. I thought about her boyfriend and what we're doing isnt right. I guess i do respect their relationship at some times.
Should i still go for her?
Hell no you shouldn't go for her. She's a user, a cheat, a game player, and an emotional abuser in the waiting... You could actually say she's already done it seeing as how far emotionally gone you are and she keeps pushing the envelope. This girl is the type of girl that will if given the chance, get you, ruin you, and then leave you. Your going to wind up heartbroken if you pursue this. Stay away from this girl.