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    Rachael1904 Posts: 15, Reputation: 0
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    May 31, 2010, 08:24 AM
    My boyfriend looks at girls in a better way than me
    When I was in maths I looked at my boyfriend and he kept staring at this girl at first I left it but then he kept looking at her.I got really scared and didn't talk to him for the rest of the day.
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    May 31, 2010, 04:13 PM

    Did you go to school today? Cause its memorial day. But if you did, just talk to him and see what happens.
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    May 31, 2010, 04:25 PM

    I believe Rachael is in the UK.

    Rachael, please read the other threads you have posted. If you have other concerns, add them onto one of those posts. You don't need to start a new one if they are all about the boy you like.

    It sounds like he is more a boy that you like than an actual boyfriend. You need to either say something to him about the things that bother you and see if he will stop, or find another boy to like who won't do those things.

    Fingers crossed for you!
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    May 31, 2010, 04:35 PM

    Agreed! All the way!
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    May 31, 2010, 07:36 PM

    This boy may like this other girl.
    Has this boy asked to be your boyfriend or have you just called him that?

    Liking a boy does not mean he likes you. Does this boy know you like him?
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    May 31, 2010, 08:23 PM

    Its probably just instinct of course he likes you but he could be attracted to this girl and like you too. Don't be mad ask him about it and discuss it and see how it goes. GOOD LUCK!
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    Jun 1, 2010, 02:07 AM

    He asked me out 1 year ago and we have been dating ever since
    But I think I might dump him now
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    Jun 1, 2010, 03:03 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Rachael1904 View Post
    he asked me out 1 year ago and we have been dating ever since
    But i think i might dump him now
    I think that would be a wise decision. Part of dating is to get to know different people and learn about what you like and don't like in people you might be attracted to. Even though he is cute, you have found some things you don't like in him, enough to where they really bother you, so that is your signal that he is not a good match. He may be very nice, but just not the best match for you.

    He has shown he is probably interested in getting to know other girls, so now is the time to be on your own so that you can get to know other boys. I bet that you will find someone even better than him, because you now know some of the things you wouldn't want your next boyfriend to do.
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    Jun 1, 2010, 04:30 AM

    Thanks guys
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    Jun 1, 2010, 07:24 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Rachael1904 View Post
    he asked me out 1 year ago and we have been dating ever since
    But i think i might dump him now
    That would be wise.
    If you two are dating and he is looking at and touching other girls, he is not really YOUR boyfriend.
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    Jun 2, 2010, 12:50 PM

    You are eleven years old and I seriously doubt you are "going out" unless it's to play on the school grounds.

    Eleven years old is much to young to be worried about boys. You said in your other thread , your parents know about this. Really?
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    Jun 2, 2010, 03:06 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Rachael1904 View Post
    he asked me out 1 year ago and we have been dating ever since
    But i think i might dump him now
    Wait. You said you did dump him, he cried, so you took him back.

    Are you dumping him again?

    This is why 11 year olds shouldn't date. You simply don't have the maturity to deal with a boyfriend.
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    Jun 2, 2010, 05:08 PM

    Until your mature enough to date.. you shouldn't and eleven is not even close.

    Be a kid.. you'll grow up soon enough and wish for these days all over again.

    Be different... study hard... make good grades and you'll see how much better off you'll be.
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    Dec 15, 2011, 02:12 AM
    If he kept staring at her he might have feelings for her. He shouldn't be doing that if he has you as a girl friend right? Why don't you talk things out with him and share your feelings

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