Choosing a dog is a very personal thing. You need to actually see a variety.
You could drop in on an obedience class. Most of the people will be happy to
Talk about their dog, and many will give honest answers about grooming and
Nature. Browse the question board. See the problems people are asking for
Help on. Dogs vary so much within a breed, even among litter mates. Some
Field Labs are as hyper as any pointer. You want to look for a calm dog.
Maybe ask to visit the breeders home. Field and show champions can be bred
In kennels. Dogs where the mother lives in the house have the best
Personalities. Some kids to fondle the puppies from birth are better yet. If
The breeder doesn't want the parents in their house, do you want the offspring
In yours? Spend as much time with the parents as you can. Nice parents don't
Guarantee nice puppies, but don't chance bad parents. Of course ask about hip
And eye certification or other genetic problems common to your breed too.
I like the Golden Retrievers as family pets. Perhaps I am making the mistake
Of judging the whole breed by my friends' dog. But I see others too. They
Love attention, and are sturdy enough and good natured to tolerate almost
Anything. The Australian Shepherds are great too and shed less. They are
Smaller than the Golden and tend to be less nippy than some of the other
Herding dogs. I enjoy my Labs, but some of them can be strong willed and a
Challenge. They shed terribly too.
Consider the animal shelter. There are many nice dogs, and you can see how
They look with little or no grooming. You can also see how they behave. Look
For dogs that want your attention, but are not going wild. Leave the ones that
Retreat to the back of their cage. Look at their teeth. Look for ones that
Still show a 3 lobed, clove like pattern on the front ones. Leave the ones
That fight letting you look at their teeth too much. If the points are worn
Off the teeth, it is an older dog that may break your heart by dying too soon.
Pinch the web between its toes. It hurts. It is OK for the dog to pull away
Or whine, but it shouldn't growl, snap or show its teeth. Think about size.
In a small apartment, a Golden might knock over the lamps when it walks
Through wagging its tail. Since the shelter likely will kill most of the
Dogs, you may as well pick out a nice one.
Finding a good breeder and purchasing a puppy that will make a good pet is very difficult. Almost nobody is intentionally breeding dogs to be nice pets. Most of your so called reputable breeders are breeding for show or something. They may say the puppies they don't keep for their purpose make great pets, but the truth is that the parents were selected for other than health and temperament. Often they keep the puppies in the kennel too long and they miss the important early socialization puppies need to live in the house with people.
Next are the disreputable breeders. They breed any 2 registered dogs they can lay a hold of looking only at the money they can make selling them to pet stores. Pet store puppies are easy to find, but difficult to socialize into nice pets, perhaps difficult to even keep alive. You will not get what you pay for at a pet store.
One of the best sources for dogs with a predictable personality is the rescue
Dogs. These are dogs that lost their home, but were taken into a foster home
To be retrained as necessary and placed in the right home for them. You may
Find a rescue near you starting at
http://www.akc.org/breeds/rescue.cfm The rescues charge a fee to help cover their expenses, but is much less than the price of a puppy plus all its medical expenses the first year.
www.akc.org and
www.purina.com have breed selector pages on their site. You
Might try them. Don't take a recommendation for some obscure, hard to find
Breed too seriously. Even if your puppy doesn't grow up like you expected,
How you raise it helps make it what you need. The first 12 weeks of a dog's
Life greatly affect its adult personality. Expose it to your lifestyle, and
It will be comfortable with you. Gretchen, my little German Shepherd did
Not grow up suspicious of strangers. She knew no life except being out and
Petted by strangers from the night we picked her up at 7 weeks old.
A Lab could work. Yellow Labs stand the heat better than black ones. Part of your problems with the Dobe/Rott may have been from removing it from its litter at 5 weeks. Six is the very earliest, and 7-8 weeks is much better.
Please plan to keep your dog in the house with you. Dogs are pack animals.
They want to be with you. Having a crate for it to live in makes it much
Easier. Your house and puppy are safe with it in a crate when nobody is
Around to watch it. I think the more enclosed plastic ones make the best dens.
A good breeder or rescue may not let you have one of their dogs if you plan to keep it outside.