I have the same problem! We have a group of four friends and I just joined up. We are in the eighth grade now but they've been friends since third grade and I joined them in seventh grade. I met them through my best friend whom I knew since sixth grade, and we have become so close we tell each other everything. She acts like herself only around me, but when we are with the rest of the group, she ignores me and latches onto the girl who she used to be best friends with. They seem like the perfect bffs though I hate to admit it. At the end of the day it feels like all she cares about is her and she just uses me as her confidante. I don't want to leave the group because I really like the other girls. The girl my best friend cares about most is really nice and I love hanging out with her. She treats my best friend and I the same, but my best friend seems to think differently. And though everyone knows we are really close, she won't admit it and says she doesn't have a best friend, just really close ones. And she told me to my face that she prefers our other friend to me. And she won't admit it when I try to speak to her about it.
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