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    kayla lincoln Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 3, 2008, 02:46 PM
    I broke up with my boyfriend but now I'm feeling depressed and I don't know what to do
    I was going out with this kid who cared about me a lot. He would do anything for me. Except it didn't even seem like we were going out and we talked more as friends. We never hung out outside of school and we never kissed or hugged like couples usually do so it was different. And every time I was with other guys I felt as if I were single. I then started liking someone else and convinced myself that I needed to break up with my boyfriend because it wasn't fair to him that I liked someone else and I also convinced myself that I didn't like my boyfriend anymore. I broke up with him and now he completely ignores me and wants nothing to do with me.. it hurts and I think I want him back but I'm really not sure what to do anymore :confused::(
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    Nov 3, 2008, 03:40 PM

    Well, it seems as if it backfired on you. Probably not a whole lot you can do besides move on. You broke up with him, now stand by your decision. Did you really expect him to stand behind you while you start dating other guys, and once you break up with them, he would be there? He is just living his life and moving on, as you should be doing... sorry. I am glad for him though. Better he move on than feel depressed and lonely. Perhaps he is irritated at the way you handled it.
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    Nov 4, 2008, 06:00 AM

    Can you blame him? That's some pretty confusing behavior, and since now you know how confusing your feelings are, maybe next time you'll take more time to think, before you act. Its to late for this guy, but make better decisions next time.

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