OK as many have read my prevous threads know somewhat about me so for the rest here it is I am a 13 male I weigh 230 lbs and I am 6'2.

Lately I have been in the citry and noticing people are afraid of me, I walk up to pretty,cute nice girls around my age and tlak to them and they think imlike 20-30 and stuff and when I tell them I'm 13 they quickly run away laughing and it's a huge ego destroyer I have only had two girlfriend who have gotten to know the real side of me, most of my consider me a "teddy bear" and ya>


I was hanging with one of my popular friends and he brought one of his girl-friends and they thought I was 20 and were scared and I talked to them on msn and they completely changed on how they thought how I am.

I really don't like to be though of as " BIG SCARY GUY" or "FATTA**"

But the thing that makes me most insecure is how I am bugged by people same age but way weaker and smaller and I easily can kick their a** but I don't really resort to voilence and I guess I let them push me over and I get made fun a lot at school and the teachers hear and they replie " watch out and stop making fun of him one day ur gonna call his stuff and he is gonna walk up to u and beat ur a**" and I really hate that they think I'm going to resort to voilence when I would rather talk to them and if they don't stop I get pisse d and then get voilent what do I do to look less scary and stuff


And anyone can ask one of my friends I am an emo teddy bear I am mostly depressed and you sad but I love helping my friends with there problems

And please noe one go on this and say oh your 13 and you can't be emo your just looking for atteniton,
f*** I got enough attention from my size and the way I look


Please can anyone help me I need help.? :confused:

Don't worry about what you look like and how tall you are. I have a friend who's boyfreind is 6 feet 6 inches and is only 15. The only reason you might be intimidating is because of your height. Its just you could take anyone down in a second. Think of it as a gift!
If you find people thinking of you resorting to violence, show them your not! Show them how sweet you really are! This will make them guilty 4 thinking of you this way.

And don't worry about your height and young age, you just had a growth spurt. Its different for all boys. Some remain short and stuff, but some sprout at a young age. Do you know how many boys would kill to be your height? My brothers are always fighting about who's taller. ;)

Its normal for everyone to be uncomfortable about some aspect of their body. Its OK really, its always the inside that matters. And you know what, tall guys are HOT! A girl wants a guy they can be comfortable and safe around...


So, don't worry. If someone at school makes a comment, tell them you don't appreciate it and you can't help your height. Because, people at school pick on everyone just to be hurtful. Height... there's nothing wrong with it!

Try to be comfortable in your skin. Show everyone who you really are. :)

I think you should take boxing lessons so you will feel likea man in progress. That will work wonders with your attitude, mind and for your weight. You will develop muscle mass and shed the pounds.

Keep at it, it will be your ticket to a healthful future, both mentally and physically. There will be no one making fun of you, or picking fights with you in about six months. :)

Don't be passive toward life, take action for happiness. :)

My very best wishes to you, my friend, :)

Actalluy I am strong at the moment I can bench press 100 pounds
But I'm going to take up eitehr boxing or football

I'm 16 and I just barely began accepting myself.
Now that I look back on how bad I treated myself for the way I looked, I realized I wasted my entire childhood.
I was always scared of what other kids thought of me, and now I realize that is NO way to live.
I don't know if I can really help you, but I just really don't want you to end up like me.
Start accepting yourself now, please.
Don't let stress about physical appearances bother you to such an extent.
If you ever need to talk, I'll listen.
:)

p.s.
I love rise against!
:]

Thanks
But I don't know if I can if you see me you would think that I'm around 20 I 13 I have a mustahce I'm fat and 6'3 once I was mistaken for a 25 year old which is quite depressing