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Hi, I have full time job at the particular organisation. At the same organsation but different departments I can do additional hours too- a bank job. One day I was reported falselly by one particular department's staff for being extremely uncooperative (to the organisation that supplies me with the additional job).. That was not true and I was surprised and hurt by such accusations.There was only small true- that I used my mobile for a couple of minutes ( we cannot be seen using the mobiles) and someone saw me using it. I wouldn't worry if that wouldn't bring me the problems as the ageincy who is resposnisble for supplying me with the additional bak jobs is going to report that to my full time job manager..
The whole true about what happened is- I was assigned a job and had my supervisor assigned to me. Later on the supervisor to whom I WAS NOT assigned to work asked me to work in his area even though she had someome to help her. I did not mind the first time. On the second time she came to me again and asked me to do someting else again, I at that moment I was doing my assigned job and asked her why I should do the job that I am not assigned and also explained that I am doing something at the moment. She was offended by my assertiveness and said to me that it's her rule that everyone works where she tells them as she was the boss there. I said "ok" and since then I did whatever she asked me to do or one of her staff members as well as doing the assigned work to me. They were continuing to come to me as if I was the one in the whole deprtament and asking me to do that and that. Some time I was bussy with my assigned job and expleined that I attend to them ASAP, when I finish my job ( I was already exhousted and feeling as if I am working alone even though she had people to help her) When I finished, I came to to help them. For that I was reported as being uncooperative and was reported.
Is that correct or not. What should I do. please?
However, I'm still wondering why you have 2 bosses giving you work.
Just throwing this out here..I haven't read the entire thread....
My main job is in labor and delivery....however, when work is slow up there I work in the ER, therefore I have 2 bosses. One nurse manager in L&D and one in ER. Not sure if this applies to this particular situation, but just an explanation as to how sometimes there are 2 "bosses."
Um, I actually didn't say you were perceived as aggressive. I said that I agreed you didn't know how to speak with bosses.
I keep asking - why are you so defensive?
All you seem to want to do is argue and defend yourself rather than explore how you might deal with the situation you're in. It's a circular argument and not one that will get you anywhere.
If you want to remedy the situation at work, perhaps you have to be more co-operative and learn some humility.
As Fr Chuck and justcurious55 said, when you're an employee sometimes you just have to suck it up.
I would suggest that if you want to keep your job you apologize and learn the art of co-operation. It's not that hard.
I have full time job, until now- no problems thanks God, I didn't need to apologize anyone, but someone apologized to me once for being rudeSo I guess silly people do not deserve apologies even if they are bosses. I am not the person to lick some part of the body just because that she is are the boss. With noraml boss people do not need to lick the shoes of the boss, but they respect the boss and they are being respected by the boss. Similar situation is in my full time job,-we are more or less happy with the boss -she is honest at least and does not afraid to discuss the matter and show the mistakes without maoing any issies as reporting and so on...( I don't know what appologize her for- this one off manager? I did not do anythign for what I had to appologise, if she would show me the mistakes I would appologise- that's not a problema' but for the sake of her tantrums I am not going to apologize)
Just throwing this out here..I haven't read the entire thread....
My main job is in labor and delivery....however, when work is slow up there I work in the ER, therefore I have 2 bosses. One nurse manager in L&D and one in ER. Not sure if this applies to this particular situation, but just an explanation as to how sometimes there are 2 "bosses."
where as anyone attacked or insulted you? all we tried to do was offer advice and point out different points of view. you're the one being difficult and argumentative. if this isn't a big deal that's going to affect your full time job then why did you post it in the first place and say that their could be serious consequences?
and i agree with gemini. why do you keep going in circles refusing to answer questions?
where as anyone attacked or insulted you? all we tried to do was offer advice and point out different points of view. you're the one being difficult and argumentative. if this isn't a big deal that's going to affect your full time job then why did you post it in the first place and say that their could be serious consequences?
and i agree with gemini. why do you keep going in circles refusing to answer questions?
You seem to trying to shut me up, insulting and you even don't feel that Did I tell you something like : you are argumentative or you are going in rounds or that you see why I had an argument? You are very judgemenatl and that's rude! I wrote everything on there in my first question. Everything is oin there, is that a problem to read? Do you get difficulties in understanding? Now stop being bossy!! Iam not rude to nice people but to people like you I say: Please stop writing to me! Will ya? TA
You not the one to ask me why I wrote this or that If I needed I wrote , you don't like, don't answer!.Stop being bossy and JUDGMENTALL!! Is that understood??! - hope that's not rude Oh I hope not to hear from you anymore, not the people like you!
where as anyone attacked or insulted you? all we tried to do was offer advice and point out different points of view. you're the one being difficult and argumentative. if this isn't a big deal that's going to affect your full time job then why did you post it in the first place and say that their could be serious consequences?
and i agree with gemini. why do you keep going in circles refusing to answer questions?
I am already havving hard time, so I don't need anymore judgements. The problems will arise because I don't like people in my job to think I am difficult ( as you just said), because that's not true, I see people all the time being more argumentative and lazy ( so you have to work for them) than me, and they easily get away with that. And you know why? Because they are more agressive than me. Now my aggresiveness is above, hope you like it
wow. i never even implied for you to shut up. where are you even getting that? and what have i said that was bossy? where are you getting that or that people are attacking you????
wow. i never even implied for you to shut up. where are you even getting that? and what have i said that was bossy? where are you getting that or that people are attacking you????
Think And did I say 'people'?? Speak to you never. it's all finished! ( am being rude now
thanks God, I didn't need to apologize anyone, but someone apologized to me once for being rude
Did I tell you something like : you are argumentative or you are going in rounds or that you see why I had an argument? You are very judgemenatl and that's rude! I wrote everything on there in my first question. Everything is oin there, is that a problem to read? Do you get difficulties in understanding? Now stop being bossy!! Iam not rude to nice people but to people like you I say: Please stop writing to me! Will ya? TA
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