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What to do?

I dunno what to do. I got myself in a mess. I saw one of the night managers and this other employee that can do no wrong load one of their trunks with produce out of the cooler on Saturday night.
I mentioned it to another employee. I know I can't trust the managers there because all they do is tell the employee you complained about them and treat you like the bad guy.
Anyway the employee told 3 others. One I didn't want to know because I knew he would tell the manager. I also told them that I told someone in the office that would look into it.
Anyway the manager then went and told the one girl that I had said I saw them taking produce and putting it in her trunk.
Now they both have an attitude with me. As I was leaving I went in the bathroom to change clothes. One of the college workers asked the girl that took the stuff how she was doing. She said, ''Too much drama. People talking about things they don't know what they are talking about'' I knew she meant that to be directed toward me. I know she will deny that she took the stuff and make it out like I am just making it up or something.

I want to quit anyway because I am sick of the mismanagement, but in the meantime I don't want to deal with the attitudes and when the girl goes and confronts me.
I told the boss to look at the security films for Saturday night but I don't think they had the cameras running anyway.

My son quit over an incident last year. He kept telling a manager that a couple of the guys were calling him nasty worded names and other things and shoving him around, threatening him and all. They didn't want to deal with it so they told my son to quit if he has a problem so he did.

I just am not looking forward to facing them tomorrow when they ask me why I went and told people.
I want to just go in and do my work but don't know what I am going to say or do when she does confront me.

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Old Sep 1, 2009, 08:16 PM   #11  
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yeah I guess that wouldn't be good for a job interview.

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Remember, in this economy, you have to be very careful about how you present yourself. If you even resemble someone who may cause trouble, you will be looked over and the next guy/gal will be hired.

This day in age you have to be extremely cautious if you want to get or keep a job. There are too many people out there that would die for your job. You are very lucky to even have a job right now.

Personally, I wouldn't rock the boat. I'd just shut my mouth and keep on truckin'. No tellin' how long it would take you to get, and keep, a new job in this economy.
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yeah
I really want to start working for myself.
I miss scraping but thats even getting tough now.
I want to start doing clean ups and clean outs again but I don't have the licenses, etc... to really get enough jobs from that.

My best friend from High School said she can get me a job cleaning houses but I'm not crazy about that but I just might.

I want to sell my art and some crafts and things but I don't even know where to begin with that.
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