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Simple Asian · Apr 25, 2008, 07:15 PM

I had 1 girlfriend before and now recently I date this one girl...

I like her... she likes me a lot too..

But the problem is... and I not complaining don't get me wrong... but it really get me frustrated and confused... whenever we kiss ? I don't feel anything,. you no what I mean ? Like when you usually kiss?. you have bufftifly in your stomach or you feeling like up there on the sky.. or your mind somewhere else... and you love it..

But when I kissed her? I don't feel anything.. like nada none... zip.. ahhhhhhhh

Is it because that she don't has expermient about kissing since I was the one and still her first kiss?.

But when I go back to my ex girlfriend and thinking.. I had the feeling in my stomach and up on the sky feeling... so I don't really no...

Thanks for anyone willing to help me

ChihuahuaMomma · Apr 26, 2008, 03:01 AM

I'm going to venture and say that you aren't having "butterflies" with this girl because you don't have "THAT" feeling for her. If you are having that feeling for some other girl, perhaps see if that relationship will make you happier.

Simple Asian · Apr 26, 2008, 10:34 AM

Are you saying that I still have the feeling for my ex ?

JoeCanada76 · Apr 26, 2008, 10:41 AM

That's what it sounds like bud.

ChihuahuaMomma · Apr 26, 2008, 02:52 PM

That's what I'm hearing from what you said.

N0help4u · Apr 26, 2008, 04:45 PM

1st of all you had butterflies for your ex BUT she is your ex so that should tell you you can't go by feelings.
Your not having feelings when you kiss could mean you are not in love, but if there are other things about her that you care about and are compatible with you could try working on the relationship on those points if you feel it is worth it.
Basically look at all aspects of your relationship. Where do you see you and her later in life?
Is she a lot of things you want in a girlfriend? What attracts you to her? What qualities does she not have that you would like in a girlfriend?

PossibleM · Apr 29, 2008, 07:49 AM

Originally Posted by Simple Asian

i had 1 girlfriend b4 and now recently i date this one girl ...

i like her .... she likes me alot too ..

but the problem is ...and i not complaining dont get me wrong ....but it really get me frustrated and confused...... whenever we kiss ? i dont feel anything ,....you no what i mean ? like when you usually kiss ? ....you have bufftifly in your stomach or you feeling like up there on the sky ..or your mind somewhere else ....and you love it ..

but when i kissed her ? .i dont feel anything ..like nada none ...zip ..ahhhhhhhh

is it because that she dont has expermient about kissing since i was the one and still her first kiss ? ....

but when i go back to my ex girlfriend and thinking ..i had the feeling in my stomach and up on the sky feeling ....so i dont really no ...

thanks for anyone willing to help me

Well, It's probably because you don't like her as much as your mind wants you too. You can try and convince yourself you really like or mabe even love her but... when the feeling isn't there.. it just isn't there.

Simple Asian · Apr 30, 2008, 08:16 AM

So any suggestions ? Like what should I do?. should I tell her the truth and see how it going to go ? Or should I go back with my ex( not that it will be possible but oh well )

And even if I end up breaking up with her?. how can I let her down easy but not hurting her ? I never good at hurting girls.. I just can make them happy

bradysmama17 · Apr 30, 2008, 08:34 AM

Be easy with her. Women are fragile. Just tell her youy don't think it will work out right now. But you can still be friends.

ChihuahuaMomma · Apr 30, 2008, 11:11 AM

ALWAYS be honest. Follow your heart.

Simple Asian · Apr 30, 2008, 01:07 PM

That wouldn't let her down easy.. it will hurt her right in the heart... t_t t_t

ChihuahuaMomma · Apr 30, 2008, 02:22 PM

Originally Posted by Simple Asian

THAT WOULDNT LET HER DOWN EASY ..IT WILL HURT HER RIGHT IN THE HEART ........t_t T_T

That's not helpful.