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Old Sep 16, 2007, 09:01 PM
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Lost and Confused.

Ok, I'm new to this and didnt really know where else to put my question. I need help/advice on a situation at work. I kinda got involved with another employee at work. We have had sex 2 times and my guess he really got attached or its because he's mexican. Maybe both...I really dont know. I'm kinda naive when it comes to these things.

But when he wanted to do it a 3rd time I denyied him.

We argued for 30 minutes before I got into my car and went home. He got really frustrated with me all the time I was telling him no in the beginning. (He even went to my car to get my keys out, but I blocked him from accessing my car.) Now understand that the first two time he begged me to have sex with him. He got so annoying and pathetic that I gave him. And my guess is that he thought I would give in again.
But I didn't. He was on break when he wanted to do it so when he had to go back to work a co-worker of mine said that he came back mad and he was crying. Being soft that I am I felt guilty about it. And I still kind of do.

I like him alot and want things to work out but I seriously don't think its going to. I just got off of work and he was also there. When he got there he was basically throwing a 2 yr old fit for the first hour of work. He wouldn't talk to me, or even look at me.

Being the only girl at night I get picked on by all the guys and when one particular one would poke/tickle/or grab me his eyes were all ways watching. We made eye contact twice but nothing to tell me whats going on in his head.
After saying all that here's my question(s)

Can anyone help me understand whats really going on in his brain?
Should I just say forget it and move on?
HELLPPP!!!

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Old Sep 16, 2007, 10:33 PM   #2  
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I would stay away from this man if i were you
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Old Oct 6, 2007, 01:35 AM   #3  
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You can not just walk away from him and pretend that nothing has happened because he is working with you and you had physical relationship twice...you owe him explaination for the change in your atitude towards him...on the other hand you need to end it in a friendly way otherwise it will back fire on you...talk to him tell him that you like him but you do not think that this relationship will work that's why you prefer to end it up and stay as colleagues only. Next time be careful in relationship with yout colleagues ...

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