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I just confessed my feelings to a coworker
Asked Mar 22, 2009, 06:06 PM
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10 Answers Some coworkers and I all went out for a friends birthday. My best friend at work and I drank a lot and I ended up taking her to my place. When I took her to my bed She was very reluctant and I was semi persistent at what I wanted at that moment. I asked her if she wanted me to stop she then took me forcefully and we made out and messed around, didn't have sex, but pretty much did everything else. I also confessed to her that I have feelings for her. After a great night and some great conversations, that day is over and tomorrow is Monday. Right now I'm a bit sick to my stomach I don't want things to be awkward and I want some more of what I got last night I have no clue how to approach this situation, I have liked this girl for a while and now its all out there only thing now is that I'm still not sure how she feels, she's been in a long distance relationship for the last year so my main questions are How do I approach her tomorrow, how can I get her to open up to me and why she took the initiative after I said I would stop? |
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| Pursuing her romantically may not be the best way to go. She is involved and cheated, with you. She may want the two of you to forget it ever happened....or she may be confused in her relationship...still not good...meaning she'll need time to move on. You mentioned she was your "best friend at work". If you want to maintain a good working environment and a friendship, then TALK to her, sober. I'd start with asking her where her relationship stands before you think of anything further. You don't want to end up being the guy who amuses her while she's away from her boyfriend. (You don't want to wind up being the boyfriend that she cheats on either.....) | ||||
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