Closeted lesbian and I don't know if my boss is bi/lesbia

miichellee · Apr 8, 2012, 12:53 AM

Well from my experience would be leave it as a little crush just try to forget it you don't wanna mix love with work it never turns out well I been there once in my life it was a disater and has happen to a lot of my friends and the only way to know would be asking her but that would be weird and it would just make it awkward but maybe if you get lucky shell make a move if she feels the same way but my advice is try to leave it alone yeah its hard but its for the best try to distract yourself and go out have fun try to meet someone new

odinn7 · Apr 8, 2012, 06:14 AM

Whether she likes you or not, forget about the whole idea. She's your boss and nothing good can come of this.

LadySam · Apr 8, 2012, 06:32 AM

It could be that she is just a nice person, could be coincidence as there is likely only one employee bathroom and one break room.
Whether she is lesbian or bi-sexual is irrelevant, this is a work place and interaction should be kept strictly professional.
If she is flirting or coming on to you then that is very inappropriate for someone in management.
Forget about it and look for love elsewhere, otherwise you could jeopardize your job, and those are hard to come by these days.

zelle19 · Apr 8, 2012, 09:29 AM

thanks guys for thee advice.. yeah i think i just gotta forget about it.. its just really hard to move on coz i work with her and believe me.. she's a BIG DISTRACTION ..

Fr_Chuck · Apr 8, 2012, 09:44 AM

Next until you are ready to get out of the closet you are never going to be able to deal with real life and grown up dating. It will say closer to Jr High where you are in secret.

zelle19 · Apr 8, 2012, 09:57 AM

i had girl relationships before when i was in highschool coz i studied in an all girls school.. i had 20 exes.. but when i turned into college i qas trying to be straight coz i want to be normal
but it was soo hard for me and it suxx now that i can't even find somebody for me. i tried dating guys but ughh.. i feel horrible! its a bummer.

Fr_Chuck · Apr 8, 2012, 10:09 AM

So you think that being a lesbian is not "normal" Can you not accept yourself the way you are and be willing to admit the way you are ?

mogrann · Apr 8, 2012, 10:16 AM

I just want to let you know that you are who you are. There is no normal and not normal. Everyone is different in one way or another... can you imagine how boring this world would be if we all were alike? I hope you can accept and be proud of yourself soon.

zelle19 · Apr 8, 2012, 10:16 AM

nooo.. ur getting me the wrong way.. being a lesbian is norm
of course but its not normal for my situation.. im so scared of alot of things now.. i actually dont kno what im scared for .. ugh its so hard to be in this situation!

Closeted lesbian and I don't know if my boss is bi/lesbia

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