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    Broadie12 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 4, 2008, 08:03 PM
    My boyfriend fakes orgasm?
    I don't understand what is going on.

    My boyfriend has admitted to me that he sometimes fakes orgasm.

    He said that some of his guy friends have decided to try
    Only coming when masturbating and not to come with their
    Wife's or masturbating in order to concentrate more on the lovemaking
    And less on the result of coming. This little group
    Is working on control according to my lover. Have
    You ever heard of such a thing?

    Nothing is making sense. He does come sometimes but
    Not very often. He is 45 and drinks too much beer.
    He doesn't 't have a problem getting an erection.
    Our lovemaking is very good and I always come at least
    Once.

    When a man come does he always have an orgasm?

    Anybody have any thought as to what is going on?
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    charlotte234s Posts: 1,903, Reputation: 143
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    Apr 4, 2008, 09:19 PM
    Men don't ALWAYS orgasm when they "come", but I don't understand why he feels he needs to focus on not coming to orgasm when you are making love unless you feel he is not pleasing you or something? Talk to him and tell he he doesn't need to bother with this silly "control" thing, as it's just making you upset about the situation and not helping your lovemaking or relationship in any way...
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