is it possible have no sexuality at all

i didn't expects you to look back over 83 posts and 'read about who i am'. OMG, big deal out of nothing really. i gave info on this question because thats what i was asking. i wasn't purposely holding back info; it's about asexuality and sex not aspergers, wg is the one who mentioned that. THIS question had nothing to do with that. yes go head and leave then; bye. some of these people are something else entirely on here

This is very much about Asperger's. Aspies are asexual and/or cannot relate easily and appropriately to the opposite sex (or even to the same sex). That's all the more reason to do role playing with a counselor to develop social skills and make it a bit easier to get through life with both males and females, to begin dating, and to hopefully build relationships and maybe even a marriage.

That post wasn't completely addressed to you.

The fact is, your Aspergers does have a lot to do with this, but Aspergers wasn't mentioned in this question. WG kept mentioning it, and I didn't know why, because I don't have the time to look back at your other 83 posts. Aspergers was not mentioned once by you on this thread. If WG hadn't mentioned it, we wouldn't have known. WG took the time to read all your other threads. I don't have that kind of time.

In other words, all the posts I posted mean nothing, because I didn't have all the information I needed to give an accurate response.

Your asexuality and Aspergers go hand in hand. Now that I know you have Aspergers I have nothing else to offer, because that's not my expertise. That's why I won't be posting. Not because you didn't mention it, even though you should have, but because I have no knowledge about this syndrome. I can't offer any advice on this.

I'm not mad at you, and I'm not leaving because I'm mad. I'm leaving because I can't give you advice about something I know nothing about. I know nothing about Aspergers besides the basics.

No, I didn't take the time. I have been reading her posts since she first joined.

Aspies are near and dear to my heart--my husband is one, his dad was one, I have a bunch of Aspie friends, and my older son is autistic (hyperlexic). For me it not only is personal but also appeals to me as a counselor, to help Aspies find ways to compensate and to manage life.

And I have no experience at all with Aspies. I also didn't know that the OP is an Aspie when I replied to this thread, which is why I replied the way I did. That info was very important in order to give an accurate reply to this thread. But that info wasn't posted on this thread, and only someone familiar with the OP, or willing to read all her other posts, would have been privy to this info. You were, but I honestly didn't even look at the other posts by the OP. I didn't even realize that she had a posting history on this site. Which is why I asked how you knew she has Aspergers.

I'm not bowing out because I'm upset, I'm bowing out because I lack expertise on this. I have no idea what to tell the OP, because I don't know enough about Aspergers to do so.

I can only wish the OP luck, wish her all the best, and assure her that I'm not leaving because I'm fed up. I'm leaving this thread because I have nothing to offer in way of expertise.

Now, if the OP has a bunny she needs help with, I'm her girl. But Aspergers and issues with sexuality because of Aspergers, I'm out of my league. The OP deserves the best advice. I can't offer that in this case.

And you're the one who taught me to read back on a a poster's history, in other threads -- although this time, the Aspie mention on the other thread had hooked me right away, so I didn't have to read back.

it wasnt mentioned b/c again it has nothing do with this question. i dont see whats so hard understand about that. this question is about sex and sexuality NOT aspergers. i dont wants a bunch of answers about AS i want to talk about the OP which is why i asked in the first places.


sorry but this is way overboard on this. i don't get it at all. everyone on here has posting history. you think everyone is first time poster? come on. obviously nobody expected to read everyones posts. you do what you did: read the question and answer accordingly, no more drama needed. the posts you made was not at all irrelevant to the topic. i am a little pis*ed off b/c now it's back to AS and its like everything i post is going back to that even when it's not anything to do with it. WTH. leave as out of it and just talk about the topic please.

True, but I have to say, I only do that if the OP has only a few posts, or I see a need. When the OP has posted more than 80 times I won't go back to each of those posts to get a bigger picture, unless the OP has done or said something that needs further investigation. Also, most times I look back at posting history because I recognize the poster and know that he/she has posted conflicting information. This poster was new to me. Didn't ring any bells, and the question seems innocent enough that looking at past history wasn't required, in my opinion. I was wrong. Actually, the OP was wrong. Aspergers should have been mentioned by the OP on this thread, if she wanted accurate advice.

83 posts, that's a lot. I really don't have the time to read through all of that, even if the OP had been familiar. Truth told, had I known the amount of homework involved to get the whole picture, I would have passed on this question. Also, if the OP wanted valid info the Apsergers should have been mentioned in this thread by her, because it plays a big part in what's going on. Had she done that I also would have passed, because Aspergers isn't my specialty. In other words, I shouldn't be here, and had the necessary info been posted by the OP, I wouldn't be here.

That's the past. Like I said, I'm not upset about this. I just don't have anything to add, and I will stop posting now, we're hijacking this thread, and that's not fair to the OP.

I'll leave this to those that have knowledge on Aspergers.

To the OP, good luck, God bless. I hope you find what you're looking for.

Alty out.

well its near dear your heart start your own thread about that. this thread have nothing to do with that wondergirl. peoples shouldnt think they have to kno about as in order to posts an answer. thats not right. why the hell cant the peoples here just address the topic?

Okay, I wasn't going to post again, but I posted my last post and saw that you had posted.

I'm not an expert on AS, so I really can't say for sure that AS has nothing to do with this. WG is an expert on AS, and she says that AS has a lot to do with what you're dealing with. So I'm torn. Do I continue to post, give you advice, and ignore the fact that you have AS? Or do I stop posting because AS may very well be why you're dealing with this?

My fear is that I'll give you advice, and I'll be wrong, you'll follow my advice, and then you'll be worse off than you are now. That's my fear. I'm afraid that this may be because of AS. I can't give advice based on that, I know nothing about AS.

If you want me to continue posting, ignoring that you have AS, give you advice without considering the AS, I'll do that. But I want you to know that WG is a very wise woman, and she's dealt with AS for a long time. I want you to know that AS could be the reason you're dealing with this, which would mean that my advice would mean nothing at all.

If you're okay with that, I'll continue posting. But I want you to consider that your AS may play a big factor in this.

Deal?