more advice needed :S

ivy_sweet · #1 Jul 20, 2006, 10:34 AM

Hi again. I hate to nag on about this but if anyone has more advice it would be great. I am still finding either some brown discharge or sometimes a bit of blood everyday from about 3 weeks ago whenever i go to the toilet, although not a lot. but the thing is its really bugging me now because its kind of stopping me from seeing my boyfriend as i cant have sex with him and i think hes starting to feel like theres a problem because ive been making excuses for ages now as i feel kind of uncomfortable telling him the real reason why. I have the pill microgynon 30 but i havent started taking it yet because i was advised to wait until the first day of my next period. but it seems as though at the moment i am on an everlasting period. Anyway does anyone know, if i start taking the pill now will that help stop this brown discharge/blood? my boyfriend is going away on holiday soon and i dont want to have to make another million excuses just before he leaves not to see him

thanks

valinors_sorrow · Jul 20, 2006, 12:57 PM

I agree with J_9 and would gently emphasize along with having sex comes a kind of responsibility to suck it up a bit and get over certain embarrassments -- like telling the one you're close to about what is happening, otherwise you deprive him of the opportunity to show his concern for you. So is taking charge and getting appropriate medical attention for your body too. Its all a part of the rite of passage on the way to full adulthood --so get busy, Sweet Ivy... you go girl!

aqua@home · Jul 20, 2006, 05:29 PM

I too think you should be able to share this with someone you care about. He could be a support to you.

I think the real problem is you need to go see a doctor. It's been three weeks and you should have it checked out soon. Good luck.

CroCivic91 · Jul 20, 2006, 10:50 PM

Hiding the truth from him will do nothing good. I know i wouldn't think high of you if i was in his place.



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