okay so me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time about a month ago.
he didnt use a condom but he pulled out before he cummed.
right after i bled slightly and i had pains in my lower abdomen when i urinated
now a month later, i've been getting cramps [which usually happens before my period]
so i`ve just been thinking that its just my period because it should be coming tomorrow
but today i started having pains again when i urinate
also when i urinate, i have a slight bit of blood
not regular [period] blood, just a light kind.
this has never happend to me before
so am i pregnant or is this just because it was my first time?

J_9

It sounds as though you may have a UTI (urinary tract infection). You need to be seen by a doctor to be sure, but if so you need to be on antibiotics as that is the only way to completely treat a UTI.

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