Hi there. I am 31 years old and planning to get married and want to get pregnant soon after.

The are two worrying issues that I need to ask. Firstly, I have never had intercourse before(still a virgin). Would that affect my chances of getting pregnant since not going through a natural process for so long

Secondly I have PCO but at the bordeline. I mean the doctor said I don't really need medication for it and just has Diane 35 for couple of months.

What can I do best to be able to conceive soon after marriage. My husband to be had been married and has a kid so he obviously does not have fertility problem.

Please advise.

I think first you need to get over the sex hurdle.

Do you masturbate? You need to understand your body first.

Second of all, sex is great! The best way to learn is to practice, practice, practice.

Remember to be relaxed, enjoy yourself go in with an open mind.

Since your fiancée and yourself still have not had that sexual relationship I believe it'd be best to keep the baby making aside for a while.

And no, just because you hadn't had sex doesn't mean you can't have children, your PCO may hinder you but your virginity will not.

Sarah