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Old Jul 1, 2009, 10:59 AM
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I need to know who my baby's father is!

I just found out yesterday I am pregnant. I had sex on days 9 and 11. I then had sex with a different partner on days 15 and 16. I know this may be impossible but I am trying to see if there is a way to tell when I got pregnant. Who this baby's father is will determine what I want to do about the situation.

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Old Jul 1, 2009, 11:04 AM   #2  
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There is no way to tell for 100% certainty that I know of until the baby is born and a paternity test is done.
4 different guys within one week it could be any one of them.
If they had been further apart like a month span it would be a bit easier to narrow it down a bit.
If your gynie can give you an exact due date you might be able to figure out who it more likely might be.
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The only way to be sure is to get each potential father DNA tested. You can get a court order, as a prelude to taking action for child support once the father is determined. Understand of course that you'll be opening quite a can of worms with many emotional and legal repercussions.

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N0help4u agrees: that of course leaves out abortion if that was what she was referring to about her options
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Unfortunately there is no way to know until the baby is born and a DNA test is done. We can give an educated guess according to your LMP, but that is NOT proof.
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I need to know who my baby's father is! Part 2

I just posted a question but I don't think I worded it correctly. There were only 2 partners for the month, those were the dates I was with both of them. If that makes any difference.
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Please keep your questions and answers in the same place. Starting new threads only causes confusion.

It makes no difference whether you were with 2 or 4 men. You will still have to wait until the baby is born for a DNA test.
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