I'm 34 and have no libido
Asked Dec 16, 2009, 01:40 PM
I am a 34 year old female and I have little to no sex drive. This bothers me. I feel as though I'm not old enough for this to be a problem. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2years now, and have been living together for half that time. He's six years younger than myself, so of course his drive is a lot stronger, I feel guilty that I'm not giving him everything that he needs. He never makes me feel bad about the lack of sex we have, but I still feel that he deserves more.
At best we have sex once a week or every other week. Sometimes we joke that we have it monthly, that can't be healthy can it? Shouldn't I want it more often? It definitely bothers me more than it bothers him. I'm very frustrated.