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rbsanf2005 · #1 Jun 12, 2006, 11:12 AM

ok so i been with my boy friend now for 7 months and we were really good friends before that... and i do love him... heres the thing i cant feel anything when we have sex or any other kind of sexual encounters. all i feel is him in me or something like that... it never feels good. not even when im trying by myself. i lost my virginity about 4 years ago and hes not the first guy ive had sex with and i didnt feel anything with them either ... shouldn't it feel good after 4 years? shouldnt i feel something? is something wrong with me?

Krs · Jun 12, 2006, 11:29 AM

Can i ask you something....

Before you have sex is there any kind of foreplay going on?
Exciting each other and ... well i dont need to keep going on!

I dont personally think anything is wrong with you but you need to somehow fulfil your needs, try experiment by pushin our own buttons

rbsanf2005 · Jun 13, 2006, 12:55 AM

yes we do... hes actually amazing at that... read alot a books i guess... no its just me... like i said its been like that with everyone ive been with...

Krs · Jun 13, 2006, 12:58 AM

Have u ever done a smear test?

rbsanf2005 · Jun 14, 2006, 09:09 AM

yes i have every year and nothing is said to me about anything out of the ordinary...

Stormy69 · Jun 14, 2006, 11:52 AM

It could be a lack of nerve ending in your pubic region, is it you do not feel pleasure? or do you not FEEL ANYTHING at all.? In either case you very much need to consult a GYN. and go from there, This is not normal and needs to be addressed by a DR.



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