My friends gotta situation involving unprotected sex.so do i

xxttrishxx · #1 Oct 20, 2008, 05:00 PM

So my really good friend Janet has been with her boyfriend for about 3 months and they are pretty sexually active. She told me that they had unprotected sex twice 2 nights ago but she made sure he pulled out before he came. I am worried because it is possible that during their sexual intercourse that he pre-came. So my question is, do all men unknowingly when having sex before the real one hits? I have recently been in this predicament as well and i am now worried. help!

MrEasy · Oct 20, 2008, 05:14 PM

Pre-ejaculate fluid is not felt by the man. It is not the result of an orgasmic spasm so it's not felt. Just like you don't sense your vagina excreting vaginal fluid, men don't sense the pre-ejaculate. The Creator designed both to create fluid to help lubricate for intercourse. It can start during foreplay and continue all during sexual intercourse.
Don't play Russian roulette. Pre-ejaculate fluid contains sperm too and causes too many unplanned pregnancies. It's better to be safe than become an unwed mother.

yam87 · Oct 20, 2008, 05:31 PM

You can get pregnant from that fluid so you really do need contraception. I think there's a tiny tiny chance that either one or both of you could be pregnant. Go see your doctor if you're really worried.

MrEasy is right, but a little old fashioned. No one should care about unwed mothers anymore, not even "The Creator."

namaber · Oct 20, 2008, 05:49 PM

I am a guy and I don't believe any man can pull out without emitting any sperm. The semen that drips out pre coming and is a natural lubricant has some sperm in it. And why would you trust some guy , anyway, to pull out. He might think he is pulling out in time and had a little squirt first. Damn, is he gonna carry that baby or go through what you need to for an abortion? And after three months of being with the guy how do you know if he is really clean - HIV, Herpes - or any thing else that will last your lifetime. Basically - can you trust him, when he has his penis inside you and isn't thinking too clearly?



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