I hate myself so much.
I feel so guilty...
So trashy...
like a whore...
I cant stop having sex with my boyfriend.
We want to stop...
But we arnt making any progress...
I feel horrible...
AND
Im scared Im going to get pregnant...
What do i do?
It most certantly is not! She may also be confused with what is rape, and what is sex. It may sound strange, but i've seen that happen alot in the younger kids.
Ohh the rape question was my old boyfriend.
I havent gotten over it.
People bring it up.
And I still have it locked in my heart.
My parents dont know.
THIS question is about my new boyfriend.
Hes helped me alot with what has happend to me.
And he would never rape me or hit me.
And he never pressures me.
Hes not that kind of person.
To answer one of your questions.
Im sorry for not stateing clearly whats going on. Im abit knew.
And Im abit scared to say these things.
Sorry for my unanswered questions.
If you have any, please ask, if it would clear things up.
Sorry....
your ex rαped you.. αnd now you cαn't stop hαving sex with your current boyfriend-- hmm sounds like αn issue to me like you αre trying to cleαnse yourself or trying to tell yourself sex is okαy in order to mαke the rαpe αlright i hope thαts not the cαse thαt this rαpe hαs mαde you promiscuous
why did you not contαct αny αuthority or told your pαrents/relαtive αbout the rαpe? if your boyfriend truely loved you he would hαve hαd done something αbout it (told the cops, your pαrents..). someone thαt loves you doesn't just sit there αnd tell you it's gonnα be okαy then hαve sex with you..
you cαn stop hαving sex you know nobody is holding your legs αpαrt
sex αddiction could hαppen to αnybody αnd is not to be tαken lightly, it's the sαme αs αny αddiction whether it be drugs or αlcohol, if you think you hαve this problem you should get help, professionαl help
Some women get raped and are afraid of anything intimate, other women get raped and all the sudden start having sex all the time. Unfortunately I was one of the second women. When I was raped I wanted to pretend that it wasn't a big deal, it was just sex that I didn't want. I all the sudden began having sex all the time with different guys. I just wanted to make the rape seem less significant and make sex not a big deal. I somehow thought if sex became something normal, not important then the rape would not bother me anymore. Sex is a big deal and it should be a very intimate thing with someone you love. I had to learn this the hard way. Sex never solves anything, and it never makes something horrible, like rape, become less tramatic. In fact sex only makes things worse.
Your new boyfriend should understand why sex makes you feel the way it does. If he knows you don't want to have sex anymore then he should respect that. If he doesn't understand this then he should get the boot. I don't understand why you keep whining about wanting to stop having sex but don't stop having it. No one can help you with that problem. You are the only person that can help yourself with that.
If your last boyfriend really raped you and now you are seeking sex as a answer then you might need some counseling. There are issues you need to deal with. I would start by talking to your parents or at least a guidance counselor at your school.
Im not using sex now as an answer to my rape.
My rape was more then a year ago.
And I hope that that doesnt sound stupid that Im still sad and seeking help now.
Ive only had one boyfriend after my ex boyfreind.
I dont want my current boyfriend to tell anyone because when I told people that I was raped they called me a slut and a whore and told people that I was just having sex with my ex willingly.
I am having sex with my boyfriend now because we have a very intimate relationship but we want to save that intamacy for marriage. Im sorry that I ever even asked my two questions. Its just been a burden. And now you probably all think Im a whore aswell...
And my current boyfriend does respect that I want to stop.
He wants to stop just as much as I do.
And me and my current boyfriend arnt constantly having sex.
Its very mild but just once is bad to me.
He didnt do anything because i told him not to.
No body cared, when I had like I said, told people what happend they called me a slut.
So when I told him I told him not to do anything because i didnt want to go through it again.
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