This is kind of embarrassing to post, but my boyfriend doesn't want sex as much as I do. It's great when we do it, but it's a problem just getting him IN the mood. I mean, we normally have sex once every one to two days, but that's not really enough for me, and if I want to go again immediately after we finish he claims that his penis 'hurts'. I don't understand this. Is there anything he can take to stimulate his libido? Or, on the other hand, is there anything I can take to, well, curve mine? I mean, he's 21 and I'm 20-- we shouldn't be having this 'problem,' right?

I also posted this question in the 'men's health' forum, but I can't possibly be the only woman who has had this problem, so any advice you can offer would be great. Thanks.