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well i am facing this myself and i am very emotional about it... "i know i should have not gotten pregnant and been more smart about it" but its the situation I'm in right now, I went to the appt last week and couldn't go through with it just broke down, and i had to re schedule.
i should be about 7 weeks, well i am not ready to live with a man i love him but i am not ready, i live on my own work a night job and have a 2 year old, i have been very weak and tired to the point that i feel like i am going to faint, we have recently been arguing alot and i dont know if we are going to last, and i went through a lot of emotional stress with my last pregnancy and don't want to go through it again.
Take a little time to do some serious thinking. It might help to consider which choice you would regret more. I'd also suggest considering adoption as a third option.
do they offer any sort of counseling where you might be having the abortion done. i think i remember seeing a poster for abortion counseling in planned parenthood. sometimes it really helps to be able to talk out everything when you have a big decision to make and a counselor that specializes helping women in the same situation as you may be able to help you figure out what's best for you.
i should be about 7 weeks, well i am not ready to live with a man i love him but i am not ready, i live on my own work a night job and have a 2 year old, i have been very weak and tired to the point that i feel like i am going to faint, we have recently been arguing alot and i dont know if we are going to last, and i went through a lot of emotional stress with my last pregnancy and don't want to go through it again.
Hi Mar, again, yes I see where you are coming from. I guess you dont really see a future with this guy then, You are unsure. You sound very independent as well. All I can say, Mar, it is your own body, but you know as mentioned previously there is adoption and that works well for some people. I wish you the best decision, Mar, but its so hard to say yea or nay to this situation. Please let us know and keep in touch here, we are here for you to converse with.
Depends on how you define "many". While there is a fairly high number of unplanned pregnancies to unmarried woman, most pregnancies are planned or, at least welcomed.
But the fact is that almost every woman who gets pregnant unexpectedly probably faces that decision. Maybe devout Catholics aren't, but then they are less likely to have an unplanned pregnacy.
But really, does all that matter to you? This is a decision YOU face. YOU have to decide based on your own situation what is best for you. What other women have chosen has little, if any, bearing on what your decision should be. They chose what was right for them, just as you have to choose what is right for you. Just be thankful you have the right to make a choice.
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