Why do I have a big vajina?

Your mother should be the first person you could talk to.

Why do you feel that you can't?

I'm just scared I don't know what to do...

I know it may seem uncomfortable, but you really should be able to talk to her about anything that you are going through. Especially really personal things.

But if you wait a little while, there will be some really nice ladies here soon to help you.

But me and my mum are not close and she tells everyone everything! Please help me!

Ok I see now. Just wait for one of the ladies here.

Hey chelsea...you know your body is changing all the time,and the same for all your friends...

If your really consious about how you look in a swim suit,how about a different type...there's loads on the market now,you can even get them with belts!

Would you be able to ask your mom for a new one...maybe the other one is too tight?

Hi Sweety,
I agree with Red, you just need to get a swimsuit that fits you better. It might just be too tight. I'm not quite sure what part exactly you think is big but you can sew some extra fabric on the swimsuit so that the fabric that is against your vagina is not so thin.

There are cute swimsuits that have a little skirt attached. Do remember that our bodies change and grow.

Your body is just that your body, we all are different sizes and shapes. And of course as we get older in our pre and teen years our bodies go though all types of changes.

As for clothing we chose those that fit us.

Everyone's body is different. There are no two alike. That includes vaginas, breasts, lips, ears, noses, everything.

You're still really young and there really is no need to be alarmed about this. Your body is still growing, you're still growing.

If you really can't talk to your mom is there someone else? An older sister, an Aunt, your grandma?

This is part of being female. There will be more surprises, trust me.