[Miss Sparkle]

Ive just come out of a relationship (2 weeks ago) and the guy I work with has taken an interest in me. He has a bit of a reputation for sleeping around in the past, but he's a very caring person from what I know of him so far. He said to me that he wanted to take things slowly because I've just come out of a relationship, that's got to be a good sign that he cares isn't it?

I like him and I want to give him a chance, but people are warning me off telling me he's no good, he sleeps around and is a slut. But I'm not guna have sex with him, I always wait at least 9 months before going into a sexual relationship with a partner, surely if he waits that long (or longer) that means he cares about me?
Hes also said he wants to take his time to get to know me and prove that he's not like what the others say he is.

What should I do? Give him a chance, or stay away?

[La Siesta Encantada]

Well you need to look at all sides of the story. What do you think of him? You are clearly unsure, right? Well I guess I would give him a chance at least to the point of becoming good friends and getting to know him better. There is somebody for everyone and you just never know. But on the other hand if you tell him you want to wait and he gets angry of pushy that is a BIG RED FLAG. Anyway use you common sense and don't rush. Do what you said TAKE YOUR TIME. GOOD LUCK HOPE IT ALL WORKS OUT>;)

[450donn]

Well, since you are just coming off a relationship, maybe you need to cool things for 9 months to get your priorities straight before you start dating again. Jumping from one ended relationship he probably figures that he can get what he wants because you are hurting. Forget him for now.