Loose weight or loose my marriage!

YoungGrayHair · Nov 20, 2007, 05:04 PM

I have been married for about 12 years , my husband has always had a problem with my weight. I have never been hugely overweight just a little pudgy.At one time I lost a lot of weight and got down to a size 4. I am now at the most i have ever weighed.180 size 12/14

See the thing is, for the past several years my husband has had a really big problem with my weight , and as of these past two weeks he looks at me in disgust every day.
Like,I cook huge meals for him in the evening and he hardly speaks to me, he gets up from the table and goes outside or stays really busy. I confronted him, halfway knowing his answers to my hurt.He said he cannot love me like I am , overwight , anymore.
He needs me to loose the fat i have gained over time, he said he cannot touch me anymore. I just dont know what to do any more. Ihave tried the atkins , south beach etc. lost and then gained it all back, now it seems i just rebell bad, i just need a weight loss buddy to help me get back to a size small and save my marriage.I love my husband and I dont want to put my child througha divorce, I really need some links to some really powerful weight loss pills or some thing.

My husband is 6'6 and has never had a weight problem.And he said either I loose weight or my marriage is over...please someone be my weight loss friend,buddy. someone i have to be accountable to and someone who can point me in the right directions.
TIA
Kaytie



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