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When ppl see me they say that I have a really hot body, but I cant see it. I'm 5'0'' and I weigh about 93lbs, but I swear its 93lbs of fat. I've tried diets and exercise to tone my body, but I'll just stay the same size and gain weight from the muscle. What is a quick and easy way to fix my fat issue?
It is not all fat, honestly. Your self esteem and self image is suffering and that is what is causing you to see "all fat" when you look at yourself. This kind of thinking is a precursor to eating disorders, such as anorexia. One of my classmates suffered with that and even when she was a size zero, she still was "too fat" in her eyes.
Do you have anyone you can trust to talk to and keep your conversation in confidentiality? Someone who can guide you to appropriate counseling? The body image is just the tip of the iceberg and I really feel you could use and need the benefit of counseling. For your emotional and physical health. You deserve to see a beautiful, vibrant young woman in the mirror, one who is confident in herself and in the way she looks.
dont eat... if its socially acceptable to eat and eat and eat and get totally obese and then people shouldnt say anything about it... then same goes for not eating. Ive always said id rather be hot/thin andn unhealthy than to be obese and unhealthy. Cant wait or the negative feedback on this one, but oh well. Freedom of speech, eh?
Well of course thats definitely true, but isnt that what everyone else always says?
Obviously thats not the answer she wanted because she would have done so already, just like all the tv shows and her friends and her parents say to do. But she doesnt want to do that. She wants an easier way. Easier is never better, everyone knows that... but easier is just that - easier.
What would you call "Somewhere in life?" What is success? Is it doing what society wants you to do, the way that they want you to do it? Anything easier or counterfeit is unacceptable... but you can be obese, and to tall someone they are fat is "Cruel, wrong and malicious"
But to not eat 'enough' is a sign of mental disorders, unhealthy, etc..."
I will repeat what i said earlier, only more carefully so as you might understand...
If the unhealthy route is going to be your alternative... at least do it and look good.
What would you call "Somewhere in life?" What is success? Is it doing what society wants you to do, the way that they want you to do it? Anything easier or counterfeit is unacceptable... but you can be obese, and to tall someone they are fat is "Cruel, wrong and malicious"
But to not eat 'enough' is a sign of mental disorders, unhealthy, etc..."
I will repeat what i said earlier, only more carefully so as you might understand...
If the unhealthy route is going to be your alternative... at least do it and look good.
There you go, bash away.
Oh no. Thank you. Now you put it that way you make a lot more sense and i finally understand!
Thanks again!
What would you call "Somewhere in life?" What is success? Is it doing what society wants you to do, the way that they want you to do it? Anything easier or counterfeit is unacceptable... but you can be obese, and to tall someone they are fat is "Cruel, wrong and malicious"
But to not eat 'enough' is a sign of mental disorders, unhealthy, etc..."
I will repeat what i said earlier, only more carefully so as you might understand...
If the unhealthy route is going to be your alternative... at least do it and look good.
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