is it too early for the invitations?

posey_84 · #1 Apr 3, 2008, 11:41 AM

im getting married on 27th sept 08. Its only a small venue but ive set my heart on it even though im struggling to fit everyone in. it would be a huge help if i knew who exactly will be able to attend especially so i know how many to cater for. when is an appropriate time to send out invites and ask for rsvp's by without sounding pushy? x

LearningAsIGo · Apr 4, 2008, 10:10 AM

If it could be a struggle to fit everyone, you'll have to either cut the guest list or find a new place.

Invites should be sent out only 8 weeks before the wedding, and ask that RSVP's be returned 3-4 weeks before the big day.
You want to be SURE you're space will fit the entire guest list though... some people may not RSVP, but they'll show up anyway!

HistorianChick · Apr 4, 2008, 12:14 PM

I've had friends mail out "save the date" cards to friends and family months before the wedding. That way, they let people know way ahead of time of the date.

Here's a few sites:
Save The Date Wording - Save The Date Ideas - Save The Date Examples
Save The Date Cards, Save The Date Invitations, Wedding Announcements

Oh, and congrats, sweetie!

posey_84 · Apr 21, 2008, 09:24 AM

thanx, i really like the save the date idea! never thought of that, thanx again x



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