Hi there. I am getting married in less than a year and it is so stressful and overwhelming. I just need help. I need to know every little thing that I need for my wedding ceremony and reception. Every little teeny tiny detail is needed. I need all the nessesities. I am so scared that I am going to miss something. I refuse to hire a wedding planner because if i want it done the right way, i have to do it or it will never be the way that i plan it out in my head. PLEASE help me!!!!! All answers are accepted and greatly appreciated!
Congratulations on your coming nuptials, but this day for you is supposed to be the happiest most relaxed day in your life and here you are stressing over details. For heavens sake, girl, leave it to a wedding planner, they are exceptionally talented at this sort of arrangement. You can still be in on the plans by keeping in touch with her. She will have to defer to you anyway, but you need to settle down so you can enjoy your day and your guests when it finally happens.
You can also consult with a wedding planner, to ask your questions and get advice, but if you can swing it, they have contacts and the expertise to put it all together, without stress to you.
You might want to check online for sites that have information on how to plan a wedding and see what you can find.
You are 17 correct? Maybe this is not the time for a wedding.
I do agree with a wedding planner, if you are anywhere near the New York/New Jersey area I can refer you to a low cost wedding planner who will take all of your wants into consideration.
One of the greatest misconceptions about Wedding Planners is that they will control everything and charge a fortune. If you get a GOOD planner, they will take your ideas, line up vendors for you to work with, work out contracts for you, and allow you to enjoy your wedding without worrying. Do you really want to worry about the DJ not showing up?
It is YOUR day and a planner really isnt a luxury, it is a must for a totally worry free day.
I worked in the wedding business for over 20 years as a Video/photographer and consultant. Every wedding book mag has a "planner worksheet" inside start with that. Here are my suggestions on where to begin.
1. Set a date - this will give you a time line to work with.
2. Budget - how much money do you have and who is going to help.
3. Bridal Party - get this done - your bridal party will help you get what you need. You can assign "jobs" to each member so you can focus on other issues.
4. Choose a location for the wedding and reception - most places get filled up quick - You would need to decide where to have it.
5. Planning your wedding - buying a home are probably the two most stressful times in your life; try and not to take out frustrations on your Husband to be .
-- And you are not too young; I was dating my highshool sweetheart in our Jr and Sr. years, we moved out together and got married in 1991. (do the math) Yes it will be 19 years in February...
Good luck to you and try and have fun with your wedding - Sunglasses, construction hats, etc...
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First pick a date, then choose your bridal party. THen pick the location (ceremony site and reception site), preacher, photographer, caterer, d.j, florist, and baker. Call a few to get price ranges. I liked to get the bridal party together to get the shoes and dresses so that way I knew everyone had everything and we wouldnt have anyone without or anyone rush ordering at the last minute. Same thing with the groom and groomsmen. Go to Discount Wedding Invitations and Accessories for Cheap! | Ann's Bridal Bargains they have some good prices on flower baskets, ring pillows, cake cutters, invitations, etc..
ALso when you go to look at locations ask them if they can refer you to anyone (dj's, photographers, or florists), I got 15% off on my flowers because the manager at the country club I got married at referred us. Same thing with the D.J, he was originally $850 but we got him down to $400 because he was bestfriends with the manager. So it doesnt hurt to ask around.
I had planned my wedding in three months, we actually just got married this past October 16th. What made it super easy was I picked a country club that had a ceremony site and reception site. The ceremony site was outside near a gorgeous pond and a separate reception hall. The country club included decorations (table linens, plate settings, arch, runner, ) as well as food, waiters/watresses, a bar with abartender, and a security guard all in one price. So try to find a place that offers as much as possible. It seems expensive at first but when you add up all those things separately you actually end up saving some money. Goodluck and congratulations. And dont worry or stress about it, you need to be enjoying yourself because it is over so quickly.
I have still been planning the wedding, but my friend has become slack and not returning my calls for the planning...so I have been considering just dropping it and not get stressed out about it if shese that busy to return a call..idk
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