Dear expert:
Recently, I am kind of disturbed and contradicted.　As I am a woman, of course, I do want 100% equality in job opportunities and other areas of life as well. However, I am not totally sure if it is right that for me to get benefits of traditional courtship, like being treated for dinners, or should I fight for the check, pay for it to prove my financial viability???
From a doubtful Asian woman　

tameika

In a relationship u should not have to prove anything to your partner, getting to know each other is more important. Talk about things such as who pays the bill and decide together if u will share the payments, or if the man will pay for everything. Do not push the subject if the man insists on paying, just enjoy, he will not think less of u unless he is not worth dating.