Why can guys be suck jerks?

srwbriezz16 · #1 Jun 12, 2007, 09:08 PM

I wouldnt normally be asking a question like this but i am in a delema and no1 seems to know what to do. Anyway so there is this guy i know and we really started to hit it off this past month and i was sure he liked me back, but now he is acting all weird. He comes and hangs out with me in class but he acts like a jerk. I really like him but i am wondering if i should give up. To sum it up we used to be really close and now he is acting diffrent, he will come and hang with me but wont talk back. So if you have any tips or suggestions....
thanx

mel_needs_your_help · Jun 12, 2007, 10:21 PM

guys are strange and complicated maybe try and talk to one of his friends who you can trust and see how really feels about youso you dont end up wasting your time

kepi · Jun 12, 2007, 10:23 PM

Guys are jerks because they think it will make them look cool.

wickedimp · Jun 13, 2007, 05:44 AM

The guy probably feels awkward about his feelings for you and sees this vulnerability as a sign of weakness therefore a threat to his emerging masculinity... remember boys aren't as emotionally mature as girls of the same age so he's still a VERY young adult right now. Dont think it's anything you're doing wrong it's just his age, in five years he'll be sitting there in the evenings wondering how he could have been such an idiot.

NeedKarma · Jun 13, 2007, 05:54 AM

Unfortunately many women are reinforcing the issue by dating these jerks. It certainly doesn't help that guys on this site openly recommend to other guys that they act like a jerk to 'get' women.

Xaniz · Jun 13, 2007, 08:31 AM

i did this to a girl once,

Seh and I were friends, but then she wanted to be more then friends, i didn't want to, because, honostly I didn't like her Aperance or most of her views, I was her friend because you should be nice to every one and give them a chance. She started asking me out and i said no, then she started asking me like 10 times a day, really making me mad, so then i wasnt her friend any more. I Then switched schools, and she even then found out my phone number and started asking me. Things liek this just makes peopel mad.
peopel say its not whats on the out side that matters its whats on the inside,, well sorry folks, that only goes so far,, no one wants to date frankinstein



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